Feb. 19, 2025

S11, Chapter 20: She Posed as a Romantic Interest (Interview w/ Lisa G)

We talked about her in-person visits to...

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We talked about her in-person visits to Dodge Correctional Institution to visit Chandler Halderson, Chandler's confession to her, and the escalation of their "relationship."
This is my full 1.5 hour conversation with Lisa G.

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Tapes from the Dark Side contains descriptions of violence and sexuality.

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Listener discretion is advised.

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He would call me, you know, once or twice a

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week when he would get his free calls. I knew

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not to he won't talk on the recording. That's why

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I made That's why I visited him in person. The

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first day I sat down with him, he said, I

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hope you know I won't hurt you and I won't

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kill you. I think everyone has a bit of a

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fascination with the dark side.

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I myself, Wallis love the dark side as well. I

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think it's something that everyone secretly longs for.

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Alves was like six months into it. He's like, oh,

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I love you. I went and visited him in person

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and he has he admitted to me that he did

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do it.

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The Darks Darks Darks. In the last episode, I talked

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about how I found a forum through the website Read

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It where I put out an open call to interview

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anyone associated with the Chandler Halderson case and I got

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no replies except for a couple of Chandler's ex romantic

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interests who eventually backed out. Well, that's until I was

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contacted by a woman named Lisa g. On August twenty second,

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twenty twenty four, she messaged.

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Me, hey.

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I responded, and Chandler Alderson's read it. I'm willing to interview,

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not for fame or profit, just to say what I

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learned over two years was diced on this sub before too.

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Here's some proof.

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She sent me a variety of screenshots and a picture

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of her and Chandler Holderson. We began conversation, she messaged

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me back.

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I haven't spoke out previously because I was getting death

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threats to my Facebook and Instagram and I was doxsed.

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I've seen what people thought of me and didn't know

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how to address it or it would have blown my cover.

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To him, I see there's someone sharing letters. I do

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believe it was one of his celli's. He's in the

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same unit as Chris Watts as well. I had blocked

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Chandler a while back. Oh no, I was never in love.

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It was a ruse for my thesis project. It had

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to be a current case, and back then his trial

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was fresh in my mind. I'm a trial nerd. She

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does have other women, I believe writing him and ment

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to I do have information and I'm willing to do

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an interview with you. I'd like to put out what

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I know and found out and clear my name. Thank

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you for reaching me. Appreciate it too.

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When I finally got Lisa on the phone, we talked

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for nearly an hour and a half, and I have

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to say it was a rather strange interview. It might

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have been the connection, and there really is a very

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good chance of that, but it often felt like I

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couldn't get a question out before Lisa would respond. That

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could also be the result of being nervous, which I

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could understand. But at the end of the day, Lisa

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provided some fascinating information on Chandler. She even discusses how

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he confessed to her the crime. This interview left me

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with as many answers as questions. I wanted to know

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if I could read a copy of Lisa's thesis. I

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had questions about the romance, the fake romance that she

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had with Chandler. I wanted to know more about police

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sending her into interview rooms to interview potential suspects. And

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I've already reached out to Lisa. Her number change, but

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I've now got her new number and I'm trying to

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see if maybe she'd be willing to do a short

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follow up interview, but for now, let's start at the

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beginning my conversation with Lisa g Okay. So, do you

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remember the first time you heard about the Chandler case?

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Was it during I think the trial?

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I got an email from Court TV about an upcoming

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trial coming up in January, and that was for his trial.

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So I had already been watching trials, and so I

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saw it was a parasite and so I'm like, oh,

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I'm going to have to watch. So I watched every

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single day of the trial.

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Oh wow, you watched it live? Well.

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I got the email probably in December from court TV

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and my email like it was before Christmas time, I remember,

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and then his trials started on that January.

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Watch it all lot? Was what was happening?

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I watched a lot of those. It was happening.

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Yes, wow? And then like, what took it to the

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next level? You were going in doing that?

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I was actually in the yes, yes, I was doing

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a thesis paper and it had to be on a

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current trial or current case.

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It was actually six weeks of.

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Work and parts of this paper and his trial had

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just ended, but he hadn't been a sentence yet, And

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since that was so fresh in my head and I

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watched everything, I did use his case as for my THESS,

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and part of the thesis was the evidence.

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So I had toally be able to pick one.

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So I used the fireplace, and I had to go

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into the THESS and kind of like break it down,

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explain it into like psychology terms with the criminal justice

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and kind of say, like why it could only have

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been him?

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Can you talk a little bit more about the fireplace

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as far as you said you had to pick one?

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Yes, so there's one piece of evidence.

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So I used the fireplace because during the trial it

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stuck out to me and I was the forensic expert

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broke down the like just how it all came to

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being caught, like the bone being in the fireplace with

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the you know, I kind of know a little bit more,

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but the fireplace. The forensic expert, she broke that down

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really well. So was able to piggyback off what I've

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learned in school and then be able to use what

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she said and then utilize what I learned so from

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the trial, which was the parts of the ash the

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pieces going down to the ash trap through to the basement,

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of the fireplace in those little pieces of evidence, and

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like all those all those different pieces of evidence being

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in there, it's just in that one alone evidence is

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just already.

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You know, without other evidence of like the.

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Luminol and the basement and all the other stuff going on.

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That was what stood out to me the most when

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I watched the trial, So I used that fireplace, and

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that expert witness was really well first on her knowledge.

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That's so interesting you you mentioned that, because that's the

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exact point we are in our coverage where actually the

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next episode is going to be ashes Dashes. We're going

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into the ash trap and exam, you know. Listening to

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Christina Figueroa, so I know, I remember her name listening

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to her footage so much in the last few days.

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But yeah, she does such an excellent job of explaining

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it in you know, understandable terms.

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Especially for somebody who's not in school like me.

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So let's I think she explains it very well for

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people who was just like regular people who watch trial.

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Since I watched it, since I am did get a

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degree and I do this for a degree, I just

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you know, I've been watching it kind of understood it.

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She was saying, but I feel like she really breaks

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it down for the public very well.

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Yeah, absolutely, Okay, so the paper, it was like a

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component of the paper.

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Yeah, so I needed to eat. That was for my graduation.

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So part of the paper when I was writing it

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was I decided I would try to reach out to Chandler.

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And when I decided to reach out, I kept going

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back and forth in my head if I should or not.

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But because my detectives have utilized me to get information

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in the past, I thought what harm could it do.

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I didn't realize that the public and stuff was going

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to actually find my name and put my name out

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there and make it more to assume things. So I sent,

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I wrote him, and I wrote him first April fifteenth,

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at twenty twenty two. I didn't graduate until May, and

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so that was I needed to do that as part

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of my graduation processing. So I wrote him on the

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text behind because there at Dodge they cannot receive like mail.

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You have to send it through a third party, and

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I didn't know if I would hear from him.

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I did not hear from him right away. I remember

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it was around.

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Easter weekend and I sent a second like little thing

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just kind of like, hey, you know, I don't know

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if you want to talk, but here's my phone number.

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I figured if another and make got my information or someone,

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I could just block the prison or call.

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And have them block me or something.

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So I received a call in the next following probably

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that weekend Saturday Sunday in April twenty twenty two, and

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it was from Dodge Correctional and it was the ICs

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Solutions and it was Chandler calling me. It's so when

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you call, it's like press press five and you can

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block people and stuff like that. So I was really

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nervous because I was like, oh gosh, I don't know

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what I was supposed to say, beause I didn't really

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know if he was going to contact me back, especially

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being like that kind of I've never reached out to

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someone on my own and like that I've seen on

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TV or like trial. It's always been like my cases

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are like local Novada cases, so they've really not I've

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never had to be in the public, so I just

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didn't really because I've been into been watching trials and everything.

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I just you know, kind.

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Of utilize how I how the detectives had trained me

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to speak. When I speak to suspects, and so I

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started off and I was very He did question me

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for the first couple times of calling me.

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He asked me on the first call, oh are you

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trying to do?

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Because I said I was in criminal justice, like I

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was finishing my degree. He asked me if I was

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going to be what did he say? Criminal minds. I've

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not personally watched that Netflix show, however, that's where it

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ties in. A lot of the things that he tried

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to do to hide this crime was based off television

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shows and off of what he saw. I'm like, well,

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I've never seen that show. I do know that obviously

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that's kind of like serial killer profile type thing. But

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I couldn't let him know this kind of stuff. So

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I was like, oh no, I was just reaching out,

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you know, I watched your child and I kind of

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kept it like very like that. So he would call me,

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you know, once or twice a week when he would

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get his free calls, and then he would start.

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He started.

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I didn't give him my address right away, but I

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did give him my address, and he would send me

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letters here and there. He can send letters, but like

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I said, I have to send it through either electronic

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communication or to the third party, which is still get

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sent to Dodge and they.

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Printed out for him.

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In the beginning, when I wrote him, other people were

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writing him, so he was getting a lot of hate letters,

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he was getting fan letters, he was getting like just people,

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just like random stuff. In the beginning, he did lie

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to me. He told me nobody else was talking to

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him and stuff like that, and that this comes into

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play because it's going to come into his psychology. So

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in the beginning, yeah, we were just friends, and like

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I talked to him like as I was just his

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friend and didn't try to get information from him because

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I knew he wasn't going to say anything over anything.

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He is trying to appeal and he does hopefully he

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thinks he will get out and thinks hopefully one day

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there's gonna be a legislation change in this and all

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this stuff. So I knew not to he won't talk

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on the recording. That's why I made That's why I

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visited him in person. So I just started doing like

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the little zoom they had, like free zoom visits. I

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go on here and there and go visit with him again.

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Very just very basic stuff. He told me how he

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grew up. He told me a lot of stuff, like

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about his family vacations, Bob Bart and Christa, about Mitch,

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about his grandma. Another thing is it was always positive stuff.

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I never heard anything. He was never abused.

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We're into Chandler.

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Mitchell had good grades in school, and he used to

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give his brother rides to him from school because he

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didn't like to drive Mitch, and that's this is allegedly

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from him. So, but they were brothers and they did

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go on family vacations. He talked to me about going

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to Florida with his dad and brother, and Krista was

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there too, But they went out to Florida every like

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glades and what gator hunting and stuff like that. He

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was in Boy Scouts and then he went to Eagle

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Scouts and he was on the swim team in high school.

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Those three things are true.

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Now, as far as him being on a shooting team

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or anything else that was being sent in some of

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the other stuff, he's never brought that up to me.

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I do know those three things are true. He felt

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out that his family because Mitche did well in school

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and he did.

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Not do as well in school.

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His grades were not a's and b's so he felt

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that his parents kept wanting His parents wanted him to, like,

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you know, elevate himself and do better. According to him,

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Bart and Christa couldn't understand why he was different than

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his brother, why he didn't get the same grades.

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Don't I think in his head he.

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Felt there was some type of competition or he they

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were trying to make him be like his brothers. How

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I felt like I got from him, and so he

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every memory he said was positive. His grandma all right. Now,

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the court has no contact. He's not allowed to contact

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any of his family and they're not allowed to contact him.

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He has had some contact with his grandma on Bart's side,

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but he I know, yes, it's only through the social worker,

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and the grandma still will not help him and basically

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just wanted to make sure he was all right in there.

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And I don't think he has hied from her since

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like last Christmas or December of twenty twenty three.

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Social Yeah, it's.

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A legal order of if you go in the Department

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of if you go on the West Wisconsin courts, you

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can also see it's on there. So people always assume

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that maybe it's wonder if his family can contact him.

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They can't.

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Even if Mitch wants to contact him, they're not allowed to.

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It has to go through his social worker at Dodge.

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So his grandma is Mitch has never and Mitch has

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never reached out, right, So if they really wanted to,

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he could try to reach out, go through the social

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worker and has to be approved. Then he writes the

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letter to his grandma, gives it to the social worker.

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She has to review it, and then send it to

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his grandma. So this is like an extra step where

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when he sends me the letter, he just given it

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to the CEO. So I thought it's because there are

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victims of the crime as well. So that is why

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he's not allowed to have contact and they cannot have

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contact with.

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Him either, right, Yeah, when I talked to I don't

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know if oh yeah, I think you saw on Reddit

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there was a guy who was his bunk mate, and

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I know what that is. He did an interview with me,

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and he didn't come right on and say it, but

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he seemed to imply that yeah, And it wasn't like

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a direct. He really didn't want to talk about it,

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so I didn't press him on it, but he did

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at one point seemed to imply that Chandler wanted his

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defense team to put forth the defense that Mitch had

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committed the murder and that's why he wasn't guilty. Did

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you ever get the sense of anything like that.

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I'll be honest. I went and visited him in person,

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and he has he admitted to me that he did

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do it. He told me it was them or it

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was them or him. Mitch wasn't even around. He's never

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brought up Mitch at all our blaming it. He told

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me that the defense that he wanted was like more

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of a self defense he he wants he's trying to

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He tried to play it to me. The evidence says otherwise.

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But I kind of know what kind of happened from

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what he had told me, and bushing his dad in

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the basement and pushing his mom as she walked in

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the front door. That's why there's drywall missing. Before all

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this happened, he told me his father and him were

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renovating the so he knew already how to do a

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lot of handy work, a lot of stuff from the

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Boy Scouts and Eagle Scouts and a lot of things

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that dad showed him. So their basement wasn't all the

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way finished at the time of the crime, and so

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he tried to spin it to me, is it more

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of like it was? That's why he said, I don't

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want my grandma, she's ninety, coming to see me here.

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And this was in person. I talked to him. He said,

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because she's going to wonder what happened, and he's afraid

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if he told her she was going to tell the

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cops that like, well what really happened, which is what.

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He told me.

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went to see him in person, like, do you remember

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how you're feeling and just what that was like.

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I went out on a Monday.

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I flew from Vegas to Wisconsin on September twenty sixth,

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twenty twenty two, and I went to Dodge that day

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and I went the next day as well, So each

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time was three hours. It's a little scary because I

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never had to go into a person like that before.

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Plus Dodge, obviously, I saw Chris Watts case and so

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I was like, Oh, I can't believe I'm even going

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into this prison right now.

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Whoever, like who.

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Walks into who will and Lee Gos walks into a prison.

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But the visiting always starts that you have to be

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there by three fifteen, so you have to be fifteen

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minutes early. So I park it around three and then

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that cuts into your visit time. So in the visitors room,

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you go in, you go through the metal detector. They

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give you a little stamp you go through and out

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and there's a lot of barricade electronic gates. Then you

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go to the visitors center and they have to go

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get him, and so you sit at this like I want.

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To call it kindergarten table.

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It's very little table, and he sits across and I

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sit there. He's not allowed to get up during the

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whole business, so I would have to get up. So

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if I want to get a soda, I would get

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up to get the soda type thing.

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So that's when we were able to talk.

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He was very cautious of cameras because both days they

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set us by the camera. So in the visitors room

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there's cameras on the ceilings, but some of the visitors

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tables are lacking a camera above it, but the tables

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they put us at or that. Now this comes into

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play because he had is on medicine through the prison

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for paranoid delusions, so he takes medication and he takes

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other medicine that kind of numbs him out. So he

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I feel like he was very kind of paranoid that

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so he'd be whispering things to me, and that's when

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he was telling me about the day of like everything

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going down. So I felt a little nervous going in there,

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and I didn't know what to expect. Like I gave

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him like a brief like hug, You're only allowed like

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a couple of seconds, you know, to have contact type thing.

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And so.

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The first day was a little awkward silence here and

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there because I didn't want to bring up anything and

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like try to badger him with questions. So it was

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more on the second day is when I was able.

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Because I was able to, I didn't even ask. He

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kind of was just giving me the information. And this

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is before his u This is when he was still

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with his working on his appeal. Before that they they

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had filed the no merit. So he kept thinking he

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was gonna he's going to get out and he was

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going to get a new trial and show that this

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was self defense. That's what his end goal was. His

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end goal is to try to get a new trial.

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So he talked to me about Mitch. He told me

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they they played video games together, like they did online

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gaming together, but they were not close in their adult life.

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He kind of gave me, He told me he was

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isolating himself and that the whole reason is he started

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lying and then he kept lying and lying, and.

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He couldn't get himself out of any of those lies.

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Now, what he applied to me was that cat his

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ex girlfriend and knew more at the end, not of.

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What happened that time.

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He did that himself, but that she knew when she

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was cleaning up on her stuffs. Now this is allegedly,

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and that's from him. I don't want to, you know,

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put anything or accuse anybody, but that was kind of

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what his defense or what he was telling me is.

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And then I told him, well, you know they she

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offered the phone this this so like she probably if

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if anybody, you know, I'm sure she probably signed a paper. Also,

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the friend that gave him the gun, he also said

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the friend did not know that that and that he

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did not give him that gun. He bought the gun

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from him with cash. He also told me chambler that

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he was I don't believe the story he told me.

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I don't know if it's true enough. Allegedly he told

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me how he was getting his money leading up to this,

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a couple months before this all went down, and he

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was running guns and weapons through to Mexico.

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I don't know if that's even true.

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Like I said, this guy is a like, very big

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like he believes some of it. I don't even think

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he believes his own lies. When I've caught him in

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lies and when he's confronted, he gets very angry, and

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then he actually has to he actually admits to it,

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so he I don't feel like he believes his own lie.

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He knows what he's doing. He's very covert, narcissistic. He

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very is like I'm the victim, I'm insecure, but he

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doesn't actually feel that way when he would call me

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and talk to me about his He has a job,

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so he worked in the kitchen for a little bit

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and then he worked at the dental office, so.

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They have to have a job there.

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He only makes twenty one dollars a month, so they

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don't make very good money there, but he is able

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to buy whatever he needs because of working facility.

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At the dodge there.

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The classification is a little different, so there is a

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few family murderers in there. So like Chris Watts and

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him are in the same unit. Chris Wats is more

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of a protective custody. However, he has worked out with

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Chris Watson and they know about me, so Chris Wats

475
00:25:05.200 --> 00:25:07.839
will be like, oh, Lisa this and they knew my name,

476
00:25:07.880 --> 00:25:11.200
which kind of scared me because Chris Watts's mom goes

477
00:25:11.240 --> 00:25:14.160
on Reddit and because Redda had found me, it kind

478
00:25:14.160 --> 00:25:17.880
of spread throughout that prison, which made him look good,

479
00:25:18.839 --> 00:25:21.519
is what he told me, because now they think he's

480
00:25:21.680 --> 00:25:24.559
like talking to someone and everybody just made this assumption

481
00:25:24.680 --> 00:25:25.839
about me from that.

482
00:25:26.079 --> 00:25:27.759
Speaking to him, he.

483
00:25:27.759 --> 00:25:31.200
Would say like, oh if I oh, they were telling

484
00:25:31.240 --> 00:25:33.279
me I didn't do this right today, but I did

485
00:25:33.319 --> 00:25:35.599
it all right, and I'm the best person at I'm

486
00:25:35.640 --> 00:25:38.079
the best one working there in this kitchen would fall

487
00:25:38.119 --> 00:25:41.079
apart if I wasn't working the value. That's exactly how

488
00:25:41.119 --> 00:25:41.680
he would talk.

489
00:25:43.279 --> 00:25:46.000
Can you think of an example of you said you

490
00:25:46.119 --> 00:25:48.920
catch him in a lie and he would kind of

491
00:25:48.960 --> 00:25:50.359
react in a particular way.

492
00:25:52.000 --> 00:25:52.359
Yes.

493
00:25:52.839 --> 00:25:56.400
So when his forty eight Hours episode was going to air,

494
00:25:56.599 --> 00:25:59.440
he asked me if I saw any preview about his

495
00:25:59.559 --> 00:26:01.440
case and I was like, no, I don't. I didn't

496
00:26:01.440 --> 00:26:04.759
see anything, Like why And he started kind of like

497
00:26:04.839 --> 00:26:07.799
on the phone, starting to get nervous sounding and started

498
00:26:07.839 --> 00:26:10.000
kind of getting angry, and I'm like, why are you

499
00:26:10.039 --> 00:26:10.880
getting angry?

500
00:26:11.279 --> 00:26:13.559
I don't understand. He's like, well, I need to tell you.

501
00:26:13.680 --> 00:26:15.000
I need to tell you before airs.

502
00:26:15.039 --> 00:26:17.039
I'm like, well, what he's like, don't watch it, don't

503
00:26:17.039 --> 00:26:19.559
watch of course I watched it. He's like, they're going

504
00:26:19.640 --> 00:26:22.119
to interview all these my exes and they're going to

505
00:26:22.160 --> 00:26:23.680
say all this bad stuff about me.

506
00:26:23.759 --> 00:26:25.279
He admitted to me in person.

507
00:26:25.480 --> 00:26:27.640
I went to visit those days that he did cheat

508
00:26:27.680 --> 00:26:29.799
on all his girlfriends.

509
00:26:29.279 --> 00:26:30.960
He cheated on like Cat.

510
00:26:31.359 --> 00:26:34.559
He told me the story about how the girl that

511
00:26:34.640 --> 00:26:37.480
has been on Reddit, she and Kat I think knew

512
00:26:37.519 --> 00:26:39.960
each other were friends in some sort of way, and

513
00:26:40.000 --> 00:26:42.599
she had been sick, and so Kat and Chandler had

514
00:26:42.599 --> 00:26:46.079
went to visit her and that's how they started talking

515
00:26:46.160 --> 00:26:49.359
type of thing. But he had been He told me

516
00:26:49.640 --> 00:26:52.160
I wouldn't ever do that, though I would, I don't cheat.

517
00:26:52.440 --> 00:26:54.720
So he's like, oh, well, I need to tell you something.

518
00:26:54.839 --> 00:26:58.480
I'm like what he says. I've actually been getting fan

519
00:26:58.519 --> 00:27:01.680
mail and people have been sending me money gifts. He

520
00:27:01.759 --> 00:27:05.319
told me this whole time that he's been alone like that,

521
00:27:05.480 --> 00:27:08.640
he didn't have anybody helping him, and so he thought

522
00:27:08.680 --> 00:27:10.759
that The forty eight Hours was going to actually have

523
00:27:11.680 --> 00:27:14.279
like more people on there when it aired.

524
00:27:14.319 --> 00:27:16.920
I guess he did see that it was.

525
00:27:17.359 --> 00:27:19.480
He said that that one aunt he hadn't seen in

526
00:27:19.519 --> 00:27:22.200
a decade, and his roommate. He'd told me those roommates

527
00:27:22.200 --> 00:27:24.400
didn't know anything I was doing because they were at

528
00:27:24.400 --> 00:27:28.920
the place at different times. But then he didn't. He

529
00:27:30.680 --> 00:27:33.559
told me he was like talking to others. He's talking

530
00:27:33.559 --> 00:27:36.400
to women. He was getting stuff from like other men,

531
00:27:36.640 --> 00:27:38.960
and he was getting all of his things paid for.

532
00:27:39.119 --> 00:27:39.799
That was in there.

533
00:27:39.839 --> 00:27:42.799
But before all this, he would tell me that, you know,

534
00:27:43.079 --> 00:27:45.319
he know I was the only one. He didn't know

535
00:27:45.319 --> 00:27:48.000
if he would be so alone if I if he

536
00:27:48.039 --> 00:27:49.279
didn't if he couldn't.

537
00:27:48.920 --> 00:27:51.119
Call me, which ended up being false.

538
00:27:53.480 --> 00:27:55.960
And a lot of stuff. Yeah, So he'd send me

539
00:27:56.039 --> 00:28:00.039
home like made cards, and I have one, and so

540
00:27:59.839 --> 00:28:02.440
he would in that. I asked him, how do you

541
00:28:02.480 --> 00:28:04.279
know how to word these things? And he told me

542
00:28:04.519 --> 00:28:09.519
in the prison library there's books of poetry and poems

543
00:28:09.559 --> 00:28:12.160
and other ways of wording. He's also told me that

544
00:28:12.200 --> 00:28:16.200
he his whole life has mimicked other people's emotions and

545
00:28:16.359 --> 00:28:20.839
how other people behave, and so like here's one. So

546
00:28:20.960 --> 00:28:24.599
he says, Lisa, another year with you is another year

547
00:28:24.640 --> 00:28:26.559
with a full heart and a huge smile. I hope

548
00:28:26.599 --> 00:28:29.799
you have a great Easter and eat all the candy.

549
00:28:30.079 --> 00:28:35.440
Read from him, so probably from a prison book. But yeah,

550
00:28:35.519 --> 00:28:39.319
so he did lie about he has lied. I don't

551
00:28:39.359 --> 00:28:42.359
even know who else he talks to, but yeah, he's

552
00:28:42.559 --> 00:28:46.519
I'm sure he's still. He's been still sending me letters

553
00:28:46.519 --> 00:28:49.519
here and there as I have him blocked and I

554
00:28:49.519 --> 00:28:51.880
haven't been talking to him for months and months and months,

555
00:28:52.279 --> 00:28:55.319
and he sends me angry letters. The only emotion I've

556
00:28:55.359 --> 00:29:01.200
ever got from him is anger or anger agree and

557
00:29:01.240 --> 00:29:05.599
he he and then every time I have.

558
00:29:07.279 --> 00:29:10.839
Yeah, the anger kind of start coming out towards you.

559
00:29:14.359 --> 00:29:17.319
It started around the forty eight Hours episode, so he

560
00:29:17.400 --> 00:29:19.720
was because it hadn't even aired yet, it was going

561
00:29:19.759 --> 00:29:21.279
to air. And that's when he started telling me that

562
00:29:21.359 --> 00:29:23.119
he had other girls. I had a lot of other

563
00:29:23.119 --> 00:29:28.400
girls writing him. They were sending him money, buying him stuff,

564
00:29:29.640 --> 00:29:33.880
buying his canteen, like property packages and things like this.

565
00:29:34.279 --> 00:29:35.240
He thought that they were going to.

566
00:29:35.240 --> 00:29:37.079
Be on the forty hours and forty Hours was going

567
00:29:37.160 --> 00:29:39.000
to expose him and he was gonna and I wasn't

568
00:29:39.000 --> 00:29:40.880
gonna talk to him, so he had no he had

569
00:29:40.880 --> 00:29:42.039
no choice but to tell me.

570
00:29:43.839 --> 00:29:46.200
But then it never happened like that. So then I we.

571
00:29:46.160 --> 00:29:49.279
Didn't talk, like I was answering his calls here and there,

572
00:29:49.920 --> 00:29:54.119
and then he would be very apologetic, I'm sorry, oh this, this, this,

573
00:29:54.319 --> 00:29:56.119
like I'm not I'm not going to talk to anybody.

574
00:29:56.240 --> 00:29:57.279
Da da da, So.

575
00:29:59.799 --> 00:30:04.119
That that's not true, because I have a recent one

576
00:30:04.160 --> 00:30:06.559
for about a month or so ago that he does

577
00:30:06.559 --> 00:30:08.960
say he's talking back with the same growth who was

578
00:30:08.960 --> 00:30:11.480
writing him a long time before this three hours.

579
00:30:11.240 --> 00:30:12.200
Episode ever aired.

580
00:30:12.720 --> 00:30:14.359
So when he thought he was going to get exposed,

581
00:30:14.400 --> 00:30:16.759
his only time he ever tells the truth, and then

582
00:30:16.839 --> 00:30:20.200
he tries to be play like, I'm sorry, I didn't

583
00:30:20.240 --> 00:30:21.839
mean it, I'm sorry, I won't do it again.

584
00:30:22.920 --> 00:30:26.000
So you got the sense that he was kind of

585
00:30:26.319 --> 00:30:29.400
in your communication. He was always kind of running a

586
00:30:29.599 --> 00:30:30.559
road honest.

587
00:30:30.759 --> 00:30:33.440
Yeah, he was always running a romance kind of game

588
00:30:33.480 --> 00:30:35.160
with me, and I already knew that right away. So

589
00:30:35.200 --> 00:30:37.759
he would not ask me for money or anything like

590
00:30:37.839 --> 00:30:40.160
he doesn't come out for us and asks you. He

591
00:30:40.240 --> 00:30:42.240
won't be like, oh, can I have money, He'll do

592
00:30:42.319 --> 00:30:45.599
it in a way like, oh, my shoes have a

593
00:30:45.640 --> 00:30:47.920
hole in it and I can't get any shoes. Like

594
00:30:48.000 --> 00:30:50.839
he'll he'll play off a sympathy type thing, and that's

595
00:30:50.839 --> 00:30:53.160
why people need to be leary and careful of him.

596
00:30:53.799 --> 00:30:57.200
I already had known, although I'm empathetic and an empathetic person,

597
00:30:57.279 --> 00:30:59.519
I already knew what he was trying to run game

598
00:30:59.559 --> 00:31:03.200
on me. And more so it was kind of like,

599
00:31:03.519 --> 00:31:05.640
since he was calling me here and there, I didn't

600
00:31:05.680 --> 00:31:09.160
know how to break that contact. Besides this completely block

601
00:31:09.200 --> 00:31:11.319
and kind of ghost him, which has angered him now

602
00:31:11.880 --> 00:31:13.680
because he doesn't let it go, like he won't well,

603
00:31:13.720 --> 00:31:18.640
he doesn't leave it be. So he very much is

604
00:31:18.680 --> 00:31:21.960
a very smooth talker, very that's what I'm saying. The

605
00:31:21.960 --> 00:31:26.079
covert narcissism. He he will play off it like he's

606
00:31:26.119 --> 00:31:28.839
insecure and but he's not. And he does it in

607
00:31:28.880 --> 00:31:31.759
a very manipulative way. Where I've dealt with other narcissist

608
00:31:31.799 --> 00:31:34.039
who are grandiose or you can tell that they're very

609
00:31:34.079 --> 00:31:38.640
cocky in that from the outright, his is hidden and

610
00:31:38.680 --> 00:31:41.440
then he has the pathological line in there, and then

611
00:31:41.599 --> 00:31:46.720
he's and then very manipulative because he would have he

612
00:31:46.759 --> 00:31:50.759
would even you know, have like write letters or draw

613
00:31:50.960 --> 00:31:54.000
do drawings or paintings for other inmates and they would

614
00:31:54.079 --> 00:31:56.359
send that to girls to like run game on.

615
00:31:56.400 --> 00:31:58.200
Other girls that are in there.

616
00:31:58.359 --> 00:32:02.200
Oh wow, So his side is like the family murderer

617
00:32:02.279 --> 00:32:05.000
side and then they have like their little like other side.

618
00:32:05.000 --> 00:32:07.680
But like we took our picture together that I shared

619
00:32:07.759 --> 00:32:10.640
with you, the inmate that he was in there for

620
00:32:10.759 --> 00:32:13.240
killing his father, and so I had to keep like

621
00:32:13.240 --> 00:32:16.119
a poker face because I was like, my energy is

622
00:32:16.160 --> 00:32:19.200
being mixed around all this now these and when it's

623
00:32:19.319 --> 00:32:23.400
like not mutually exclusive, I find that out, especially even

624
00:32:23.400 --> 00:32:27.039
when I've gone to talk to suspects in my local cases.

625
00:32:28.279 --> 00:32:32.119
A person can still have like their human side and

626
00:32:32.160 --> 00:32:34.880
show you who they are and you wouldn't probably know

627
00:32:34.920 --> 00:32:38.079
they did something, But then they are have the evil

628
00:32:38.160 --> 00:32:41.200
to them inside, and that's how he is, and that's

629
00:32:41.240 --> 00:32:42.319
how a few of them are.

630
00:32:42.880 --> 00:32:46.319
When I was in the prison like interacting, so I.

631
00:32:46.279 --> 00:32:50.200
Feel like, yeah, it's not it's like I think everybody

632
00:32:50.319 --> 00:32:53.039
thinks like, oh, you're gonna realize this person is a

633
00:32:53.079 --> 00:32:55.279
cycle or they have a certain look or a certain

634
00:32:55.279 --> 00:32:58.200
way they act, and I don't find that to be true.

635
00:32:58.559 --> 00:33:01.519
They can act just choking and laughing and you wouldn't

636
00:33:01.559 --> 00:33:04.279
know if he walked past them on your daily life.

637
00:33:04.279 --> 00:33:07.000
And that's what's really creepy and scary about it too.

638
00:33:07.799 --> 00:33:12.680
Very much like social chameleons, they're able to blend in. Yeah,

639
00:33:14.400 --> 00:33:15.160
how many times.

640
00:33:15.000 --> 00:33:16.720
It was very hard for me to be in person

641
00:33:16.920 --> 00:33:19.119
because every time I was looking at his hands, I

642
00:33:19.200 --> 00:33:21.599
kept thinking about him dismembering his parents.

643
00:33:22.160 --> 00:33:24.440
So it was very hard for me to try to

644
00:33:24.519 --> 00:33:29.720
like to like play it off. But yeah, so he

645
00:33:29.759 --> 00:33:31.680
gad a lot of weights.

646
00:33:31.839 --> 00:33:35.319
He's like one ninety now because of the prison food

647
00:33:35.319 --> 00:33:38.480
and all that. And he telled me that because he

648
00:33:38.599 --> 00:33:42.839
was pretending to work and all that kinds of school,

649
00:33:43.559 --> 00:33:45.920
he actually was playing the video game in isolating himself

650
00:33:45.960 --> 00:33:48.640
in his room. He wouldn't eat, So I think when

651
00:33:48.680 --> 00:33:50.839
he was arrested me he was like one thirty five

652
00:33:51.000 --> 00:33:54.359
or something around there. So he's pretty tall. He's probably

653
00:33:54.400 --> 00:33:57.680
about six foot. I'm very tying in like five to two.

654
00:33:58.039 --> 00:34:00.680
So there is a credit like a pretty big size difference.

655
00:34:00.720 --> 00:34:03.160
And when I the first day I sat down with him,

656
00:34:03.240 --> 00:34:05.240
he said, I hope you know I won't hurt you

657
00:34:05.319 --> 00:34:06.079
and I won't kill you.

658
00:34:07.119 --> 00:34:10.320
He said that to me, Oh, well, one of the first.

659
00:34:11.800 --> 00:34:13.960
Yes, and so that kind.

660
00:34:13.840 --> 00:34:16.320
Of alerted me because I'm like, wait, what is like

661
00:34:16.679 --> 00:34:18.920
that's just a weird thing for someone to say, and

662
00:34:18.960 --> 00:34:22.119
so I just was like, oh, okay, Like, well, no,

663
00:34:22.159 --> 00:34:24.320
you're not going to or kill me because you're in prisoned.

664
00:34:25.199 --> 00:34:28.519
So was he handcuffed when you talked with.

665
00:34:29.880 --> 00:34:31.800
No, he's there. They're not handcuffed.

666
00:34:31.800 --> 00:34:33.280
So they come in and they have a little like

667
00:34:33.360 --> 00:34:35.800
station where they have to have strip search, and they

668
00:34:35.880 --> 00:34:38.039
come into the visiting room and they're allowed to just

669
00:34:38.079 --> 00:34:39.639
walk up to the table, but they're not allowed to

670
00:34:39.639 --> 00:34:39.960
get up.

671
00:34:40.000 --> 00:34:40.599
The whole time.

672
00:34:40.840 --> 00:34:44.159
There's guards always constantly around and like walking around all

673
00:34:44.199 --> 00:34:46.719
the time. Like I said, ours was always under kind

674
00:34:46.719 --> 00:34:49.360
of like a camera, so I know he wasn't. He's

675
00:34:49.559 --> 00:34:54.079
very very very reserved and quiet, so you wouldn't know

676
00:34:54.360 --> 00:34:57.440
he even he even like if you didn't know the

677
00:34:57.480 --> 00:34:59.920
crime he did, you you wouldn't even guess that he

678
00:35:00.079 --> 00:35:04.519
did that. He was polite in person, and he's he's

679
00:35:05.039 --> 00:35:07.440
always put on the mimicking. And that's when he started

680
00:35:07.480 --> 00:35:13.000
telling me he's always watched shows, lots of shows, alien shows,

681
00:35:13.039 --> 00:35:15.679
which ties into the using the foil on the phones,

682
00:35:16.519 --> 00:35:20.400
very into aliens, very into sci fi shows. He has

683
00:35:20.519 --> 00:35:24.480
watched some of the true crime stuff and some of

684
00:35:24.519 --> 00:35:29.599
the fiction shows which kind of like the criminal minds

685
00:35:29.599 --> 00:35:33.719
with like like FBI and have that, the fictional show.

686
00:35:33.800 --> 00:35:37.840
So he's getting his stuff from you know, these TV shows.

687
00:35:38.480 --> 00:35:41.280
And he told me that's how he learned to be,

688
00:35:41.480 --> 00:35:44.559
how he learned to behave was to mimic other people.

689
00:35:45.639 --> 00:35:48.880
He's very robotic and you can it's like he does

690
00:35:48.920 --> 00:35:52.480
not his void of feelings unless he does have his

691
00:35:52.559 --> 00:35:56.719
angry side. Otherwise he's very very reserved, flat toned, and

692
00:35:56.800 --> 00:35:59.840
kind of just like the way he talked. I did

693
00:35:59.880 --> 00:36:03.400
go and listened to some recordings that were out with

694
00:36:03.920 --> 00:36:07.280
Kat and him and the mother, and the way he

695
00:36:07.360 --> 00:36:09.800
talked to them is the same way he talked to me.

696
00:36:10.719 --> 00:36:12.840
Oh, how you doing today? Oh I'm gonna be fine.

697
00:36:12.920 --> 00:36:13.400
Oh it's this.

698
00:36:14.119 --> 00:36:18.880
He's never been upset, He's never showed any remorse. He's

699
00:36:18.960 --> 00:36:21.000
never said he regrets it. He told me he didn't

700
00:36:21.000 --> 00:36:25.360
regret anything. When his household. I did tell him, you know,

701
00:36:25.480 --> 00:36:27.880
your house is for sale and it's and it's sold.

702
00:36:27.920 --> 00:36:30.679
I saw it on Reddit. And then he said, well,

703
00:36:30.679 --> 00:36:33.360
I hope Mitch gets that money for it. That's all.

704
00:36:33.440 --> 00:36:36.599
He never brings up Mitch or anything. And he just

705
00:36:36.639 --> 00:36:40.719
said he just very void of any type of emotion

706
00:36:40.880 --> 00:36:42.960
or feeling of anything he's done.

707
00:36:43.599 --> 00:36:43.880
One of the.

708
00:36:45.480 --> 00:36:48.320
Mitch he didn't. He didn't seem resentful.

709
00:36:48.360 --> 00:36:51.159
He's very flat when he said it, like I hope

710
00:36:51.159 --> 00:36:53.760
he gets the money from the house, he said, I guess,

711
00:36:53.800 --> 00:36:56.960
I admit I would. He's probably married by now. I

712
00:36:57.000 --> 00:36:59.440
think that was like with the time. I think I

713
00:36:59.440 --> 00:37:01.559
think Mitch was just had a fiance and they hadn't

714
00:37:01.599 --> 00:37:05.119
gotten married yet, and so I didn't feel like any

715
00:37:05.199 --> 00:37:07.840
there was any resentment in that moment of that and

716
00:37:08.039 --> 00:37:10.199
just kind of like and that's the time he brought

717
00:37:10.239 --> 00:37:11.840
up about his grandma, like I don't want my nine

718
00:37:11.920 --> 00:37:14.840
year old grandma coming to prison, And he was more

719
00:37:14.880 --> 00:37:17.239
so didn't want his family coming there because he thinks

720
00:37:17.239 --> 00:37:19.400
they're going to ask why, and then they're going to

721
00:37:19.480 --> 00:37:23.239
go tell and he's going to ruin his appeal. I

722
00:37:23.239 --> 00:37:26.559
don't know if he'll ever get out. Yeah, And I

723
00:37:26.559 --> 00:37:28.679
don't know if he ever will or want to ever

724
00:37:28.800 --> 00:37:31.760
talk to Mitch. He's never even brought up the fact

725
00:37:31.800 --> 00:37:36.199
of even missing any of his family or Mitch or anybody.

726
00:37:36.400 --> 00:37:39.400
His dogs is the only thing he says he misses

727
00:37:40.440 --> 00:37:42.440
or bring up that he missed is his dogs. His

728
00:37:42.480 --> 00:37:48.719
two dogs in his mind when he tells me, unless

729
00:37:48.760 --> 00:37:51.039
I bring her up, he never thinks about her, and

730
00:37:51.079 --> 00:37:54.719
he doesn't care about her, and he never thinks about her.

731
00:37:55.480 --> 00:37:59.519
He recently just said that when I had like try keys,

732
00:37:59.559 --> 00:38:01.800
he had trying to write me letters, and I told

733
00:38:01.880 --> 00:38:04.639
him he needs to start taking accountabilities for his actions

734
00:38:04.679 --> 00:38:08.519
and what he's done to everybody else, including like.

735
00:38:08.519 --> 00:38:11.320
Me, because you know he's not. He's not. He doesn't

736
00:38:11.360 --> 00:38:12.519
take any accountability.

737
00:38:12.559 --> 00:38:15.559
He doesn't care. It doesn't seem like he even cared.

738
00:38:15.960 --> 00:38:19.079
He gave me, like I said. He to me said

739
00:38:19.119 --> 00:38:22.039
that she knew what was going on during the cleanup

740
00:38:22.039 --> 00:38:25.079
and afterwards that part of the reason why he did

741
00:38:25.119 --> 00:38:28.199
what he did was because he needed the life insurance

742
00:38:28.239 --> 00:38:31.199
money so that he could provide her the house and

743
00:38:31.239 --> 00:38:32.639
all they that in Florida.

744
00:38:33.360 --> 00:38:36.079
Right when he did the fall and hurt his neck.

745
00:38:36.239 --> 00:38:38.880
He did tell me that he went he met with them,

746
00:38:39.000 --> 00:38:40.800
and he went to dinner. So he feels if his

747
00:38:40.960 --> 00:38:45.000
cat and her mother backstabbed him, that they that they

748
00:38:45.000 --> 00:38:47.480
shouldn't have went to Core and they should have had

749
00:38:47.519 --> 00:38:49.320
his back, and that they should have defended him, and

750
00:38:49.320 --> 00:38:52.159
that they He also did lie to me because I

751
00:38:52.400 --> 00:38:54.840
found out recently when I was listening to some of

752
00:38:54.840 --> 00:38:59.440
those recordings, isn't he doesn't know that. I realized this now,

753
00:38:59.760 --> 00:39:02.880
but he had told me they stopped talking to him

754
00:39:03.239 --> 00:39:06.239
months and months before they actually really did stop talking

755
00:39:06.280 --> 00:39:08.639
to him. He told me they never helped him when

756
00:39:08.639 --> 00:39:11.000
he was in there in County, and obviously that was

757
00:39:11.039 --> 00:39:15.000
not true. So it's very manipulative, very like he's the

758
00:39:15.079 --> 00:39:16.039
victim all the time.

759
00:39:17.039 --> 00:39:19.199
How many times did you go to see him? And

760
00:39:19.280 --> 00:39:21.679
when did he was it on the first meeting that

761
00:39:21.760 --> 00:39:23.800
he started talking about?

762
00:39:24.079 --> 00:39:27.440
Second time and on September twenty seventh, twenty twenty two.

763
00:39:27.519 --> 00:39:29.519
I've talked to him like on the phone and stuff

764
00:39:29.519 --> 00:39:32.760
like visiting. Obviously I'm on the list and all that.

765
00:39:33.440 --> 00:39:36.280
I he kept wanting me to go back in person,

766
00:39:36.360 --> 00:39:39.440
but I just didn't go. I didn't want to go back, honestly,

767
00:39:40.159 --> 00:39:41.719
so I kind of was just, Oh, it's not the

768
00:39:41.760 --> 00:39:43.880
right time. All I'm doing this, I'm doing that, and

769
00:39:43.960 --> 00:39:45.639
it's kind of like, yeah, I just got stuck in

770
00:39:45.679 --> 00:39:48.880
this situation like where like sometimes I wouldn't answer his calls,

771
00:39:48.920 --> 00:39:52.199
and sometimes I would if I didn't answer his calls,

772
00:39:52.239 --> 00:39:54.719
and the times that I did, he keeps calling over

773
00:39:54.800 --> 00:39:56.760
and over, and so I eventually had to end up

774
00:39:56.800 --> 00:40:00.320
blocking him from calling my phone. He also spoke to

775
00:40:00.360 --> 00:40:04.199
me about very resentful towards his parents. He said how

776
00:40:04.239 --> 00:40:07.519
they wouldn't help him, so they wouldn't give him money,

777
00:40:07.519 --> 00:40:11.000
and his dad is very frugal and they christa helicopter

778
00:40:11.039 --> 00:40:12.920
mom and she was always in his business or going

779
00:40:12.960 --> 00:40:16.880
into his room. He told me that they did not

780
00:40:17.039 --> 00:40:19.199
let him so he couldn't have a car, so up

781
00:40:19.280 --> 00:40:20.960
until he did what he did, which was used as

782
00:40:21.000 --> 00:40:22.480
evidence in the trial, because I could think he was

783
00:40:22.559 --> 00:40:25.039
driving his dad's super rue, which was something very rare.

784
00:40:25.760 --> 00:40:27.880
He didn't even have a car. It was cat doing

785
00:40:27.920 --> 00:40:28.559
everything for him.

786
00:40:28.559 --> 00:40:31.039
And that's why I don't believe him about him going

787
00:40:31.159 --> 00:40:33.039
to Mexico or all that, and that he had his

788
00:40:33.079 --> 00:40:35.880
own money like he said to me, because he was

789
00:40:35.920 --> 00:40:38.679
asking her for like five dollars, so I don't believe that.

790
00:40:38.760 --> 00:40:41.840
So in person, he told me his parents would not

791
00:40:41.920 --> 00:40:44.280
give him any money. They wanted him out of the house.

792
00:40:45.239 --> 00:40:48.440
He believed that his dad. He didn't know until the

793
00:40:48.480 --> 00:40:51.519
discovery came out that there was never actually an interview

794
00:40:51.519 --> 00:40:54.280
with the college. So when Bart told him, we need

795
00:40:54.280 --> 00:40:56.119
to go to the college. We're going to see what's

796
00:40:56.159 --> 00:40:58.320
going on. You know, I have a meeting at the college.

797
00:40:58.920 --> 00:41:01.400
That is why he laid wait and ambush his father

798
00:41:01.880 --> 00:41:06.480
in the basement, because he told me he thought he

799
00:41:06.519 --> 00:41:07.960
was going to get forced to go in the car

800
00:41:08.039 --> 00:41:09.320
and that he was going to go to the college

801
00:41:09.320 --> 00:41:11.639
and then his whole lid was going to get blown

802
00:41:11.679 --> 00:41:14.559
on this lie. And that is also why he unplugged

803
00:41:14.599 --> 00:41:17.719
the computer. He's very watched a lot of stuff, so

804
00:41:17.760 --> 00:41:20.800
he thinks everything is listening to him. So he thinks

805
00:41:20.840 --> 00:41:23.400
your computer is listening to you or your software.

806
00:41:23.599 --> 00:41:26.000
Even before he did the crime, he was in that

807
00:41:26.079 --> 00:41:27.440
paranoid mindset.

808
00:41:27.719 --> 00:41:30.199
So he's been in a paranoid mindset and because of

809
00:41:30.239 --> 00:41:32.000
his lies. So he told me he was trying to

810
00:41:32.039 --> 00:41:34.440
back out of the lie. So when he he said

811
00:41:34.440 --> 00:41:36.280
he did kind of fall down the stairs and did

812
00:41:36.280 --> 00:41:38.000
have a little bit like kind of did hurt himself.

813
00:41:38.000 --> 00:41:38.920
He did trip on the dog.

814
00:41:39.039 --> 00:41:42.960
He just exaggerated it more to get out of I'm.

815
00:41:42.960 --> 00:41:44.440
I can't go work at SpaceX.

816
00:41:44.480 --> 00:41:46.000
I need to get out of this with Kat and

817
00:41:46.039 --> 00:41:48.039
her family and so they when he told me, they

818
00:41:48.079 --> 00:41:51.800
go to Buffalo Wild Wings for the Tuesday Wings Special

819
00:41:52.320 --> 00:41:56.119
every Tuesday, and so he told them there and that's

820
00:41:56.199 --> 00:41:59.159
he told me that he never asked to live there.

821
00:41:59.360 --> 00:42:01.400
The mom at him. But again he's going to make

822
00:42:01.480 --> 00:42:04.800
himself be the victim. But he was trying to get

823
00:42:04.840 --> 00:42:09.360
somewhere to stay because he already kind of had he

824
00:42:09.360 --> 00:42:11.519
he was trying to get himself out of these lies

825
00:42:12.360 --> 00:42:15.199
because he's like to him, he had been lying. So

826
00:42:15.280 --> 00:42:17.280
he was lying about his job, he was lying about

827
00:42:17.280 --> 00:42:20.000
going to college, and then he was just lying about

828
00:42:20.079 --> 00:42:23.559
everything and he didn't He told me he didn't want

829
00:42:23.599 --> 00:42:25.679
to lose the roof over his head with his parents,

830
00:42:25.679 --> 00:42:27.199
and he felt that they would kick him out and

831
00:42:27.199 --> 00:42:30.000
he was going to be homeless. So instead of him

832
00:42:30.039 --> 00:42:32.159
just being know an adult and trying to actually get

833
00:42:32.199 --> 00:42:34.480
a job or tell his parents or like say the truth,

834
00:42:34.679 --> 00:42:37.199
he took it to the extreme level because he just

835
00:42:37.239 --> 00:42:39.239
thought all of his lives are going to be exposed.

836
00:42:39.599 --> 00:42:42.599
And that is what he told me, So he admitted

837
00:42:42.679 --> 00:42:50.000
to the ambush approach of it. We'll be right back

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846
00:43:23.320 --> 00:43:34.239
Thank you to everyone who supports the show. He admitted

847
00:43:34.320 --> 00:43:37.960
to the ambush approach on his dad, but he also

848
00:43:38.159 --> 00:43:42.039
had this idea of like a self defense. Can you

849
00:43:42.800 --> 00:43:45.519
how did he explain that? Do you remember?

850
00:43:45.639 --> 00:43:47.760
So that day that they were supposed to go, I

851
00:43:47.760 --> 00:43:50.519
think goes around like three pm or so. He said

852
00:43:50.559 --> 00:43:53.519
that his dad was trying to find him and calling

853
00:43:53.559 --> 00:43:55.480
out for him, looking for him, and he already had

854
00:43:55.480 --> 00:43:57.239
the rifles. So he told the reason he had his

855
00:43:57.320 --> 00:44:00.199
vase hidden is because his family doesn't even agree. They

856
00:44:00.239 --> 00:44:03.480
didn't want him smoking or vaping in the house, so

857
00:44:03.559 --> 00:44:05.679
he was hiding the vape in the parts of the

858
00:44:05.760 --> 00:44:07.960
vape in the wall with that gun because he told

859
00:44:07.960 --> 00:44:11.079
me his family was very liberal and they wouldn't be okay.

860
00:44:11.119 --> 00:44:13.039
They weren't okay with the vaping, and they were not

861
00:44:13.079 --> 00:44:14.800
okay with having a gun in the house, so they

862
00:44:14.800 --> 00:44:17.079
didn't even know about that gun. So it was already

863
00:44:17.119 --> 00:44:20.760
in the position of that. So he had that night

864
00:44:20.840 --> 00:44:26.000
before when he was texting Cat, his mind was already spinning.

865
00:44:26.000 --> 00:44:28.519
He told me that he needed to do something.

866
00:44:28.199 --> 00:44:32.679
Because he overheard Bart and Chris are talking and them

867
00:44:32.760 --> 00:44:36.480
saying Bart like heaching on that this is really what's

868
00:44:36.519 --> 00:44:40.039
going on. He's like didn't finish school and they were

869
00:44:40.280 --> 00:44:42.800
kind of questioning, like why why didn't he just tell them?

870
00:44:43.000 --> 00:44:44.519
And he overheard a conversation.

871
00:44:44.719 --> 00:44:46.519
That's when he texts Cat like, I think that he

872
00:44:46.559 --> 00:44:49.519
said something about like his life's fucked up or something

873
00:44:49.599 --> 00:44:50.519
like something like that.

874
00:44:50.920 --> 00:44:53.519
And so his head already started spinning.

875
00:44:53.559 --> 00:44:55.960
And so when she left for work and he was

876
00:44:56.039 --> 00:44:58.480
home and his dad told him they had that meeting,

877
00:44:58.559 --> 00:45:00.880
he believed there was a meet and I think that

878
00:45:00.920 --> 00:45:02.840
his dad is probably just going to confront him, ask

879
00:45:02.880 --> 00:45:06.079
him what's going on. That's why he asked his mom.

880
00:45:06.119 --> 00:45:09.360
He delayed his mom's time coming home with the soda

881
00:45:09.400 --> 00:45:12.000
because he was lying in wait, because he told me

882
00:45:12.800 --> 00:45:15.079
his dad was looking for him, and because the basement

883
00:45:15.119 --> 00:45:17.880
still was not finished. There's a little side room they're

884
00:45:17.920 --> 00:45:19.960
like kind of off to the back where you can

885
00:45:20.079 --> 00:45:22.920
lay and like stand in and he can come out,

886
00:45:23.079 --> 00:45:25.559
and his dad walked down to find him. He just

887
00:45:25.880 --> 00:45:28.480
put the gun to his dad's back and shot him,

888
00:45:28.880 --> 00:45:32.039
so to him, So his dad never really confronted him,

889
00:45:32.079 --> 00:45:33.039
but he wanted.

890
00:45:32.840 --> 00:45:33.760
To spin it like that.

891
00:45:34.199 --> 00:45:37.760
In his head, he's self defending himself because they're gonna

892
00:45:37.760 --> 00:45:40.119
find his lives and they're gonna kick him out. And

893
00:45:40.159 --> 00:45:41.920
then he told me when his mom came home after

894
00:45:42.119 --> 00:45:45.320
she came home at five something, he ambushed her when

895
00:45:45.360 --> 00:45:47.360
she came in the front door, and then he brought

896
00:45:47.400 --> 00:45:48.079
her down.

897
00:45:47.880 --> 00:45:51.480
To the basement, wow and shut. He ambushed her. And

898
00:45:51.480 --> 00:45:52.280
then that is.

899
00:45:52.239 --> 00:45:55.320
Why there's the pieces of drywall missing, he told me,

900
00:45:55.440 --> 00:45:57.719
because he had to cut the blood evidence out of

901
00:45:57.800 --> 00:46:03.079
the wall. And he also told me it was over

902
00:46:03.159 --> 00:46:05.360
a few days. That's why he wasn't seeing cats. He

903
00:46:05.400 --> 00:46:09.079
didn't just do this like dump their bodies in one trip.

904
00:46:09.239 --> 00:46:09.920
He told me.

905
00:46:10.199 --> 00:46:13.039
He took extra trips in the day and at night

906
00:46:13.079 --> 00:46:15.440
to different rivers in Wisconsin.

907
00:46:16.400 --> 00:46:17.119
To cover it up.

908
00:46:17.159 --> 00:46:18.880
And that's why he was googling because he was all

909
00:46:18.920 --> 00:46:21.000
paranoid that he was going to get like the bodies

910
00:46:21.039 --> 00:46:23.159
that are going to be discovered. So he tried to

911
00:46:23.159 --> 00:46:25.559
burn them at first and realized how hard it was when.

912
00:46:25.400 --> 00:46:26.199
It blew up.

913
00:46:26.760 --> 00:46:29.559
Now me, as I listening to this and I studied this,

914
00:46:29.800 --> 00:46:32.159
I know forensically you cannot burn a body is That's

915
00:46:32.199 --> 00:46:33.119
not how it's going to work.

916
00:46:33.159 --> 00:46:35.000
He did not. He sees this on a movie.

917
00:46:35.760 --> 00:46:37.800
He get this from a movie and tried to do

918
00:46:37.840 --> 00:46:40.760
what he sees on a movie in real life. When

919
00:46:40.800 --> 00:46:44.119
that plan didn't work out, he had to start going

920
00:46:44.119 --> 00:46:46.039
to dump the body parts. He told me he couldn't

921
00:46:46.079 --> 00:46:49.079
lift his parents. It was too hard to move them.

922
00:46:49.760 --> 00:46:51.519
It was very and he told me in person that

923
00:46:51.559 --> 00:46:53.639
it was hard to dismember them as well. He said,

924
00:46:53.679 --> 00:46:56.280
it's not like the movies or the TV shows. I

925
00:46:56.280 --> 00:46:58.719
could barely cut through and it was very hard to

926
00:46:58.719 --> 00:47:01.599
sit there and hear all that and me to speak

927
00:47:01.639 --> 00:47:03.679
on this right now because it's very gruesome.

928
00:47:04.280 --> 00:47:05.119
And yeah.

929
00:47:05.159 --> 00:47:07.360
He did it over a period of days, on days

930
00:47:07.360 --> 00:47:10.800
at different places across Wisconsin and places he was familiar

931
00:47:10.800 --> 00:47:13.559
with and had been to. And the reason why he

932
00:47:13.639 --> 00:47:18.000
did on the cat's mother's property there because he didn't

933
00:47:18.000 --> 00:47:19.719
think the cops were gonna put He thought he was

934
00:47:19.960 --> 00:47:21.920
smarter than the police and that the cops were not

935
00:47:21.960 --> 00:47:24.440
gonna they'd have to get a search warrant for the property.

936
00:47:24.559 --> 00:47:26.400
Never thought she was gonna call in anything with the

937
00:47:26.400 --> 00:47:29.840
turkey vultures. He figured that the best way was like, oh,

938
00:47:29.960 --> 00:47:31.920
they can't get a search warrant. Her mom and no

939
00:47:32.400 --> 00:47:34.320
Cat and them are gonna protect me. So I'm going

940
00:47:34.400 --> 00:47:37.079
to use their property. It'll be harder to get a

941
00:47:37.119 --> 00:47:40.119
search warrant than how he was leaving the body parts

942
00:47:40.119 --> 00:47:43.719
throughout Wisconsin River and all those kinds of stuff. He

943
00:47:43.800 --> 00:47:45.320
used to go fishing a lot, so he knew a

944
00:47:45.360 --> 00:47:48.320
lot of different spots, a lot of spots with his

945
00:47:48.519 --> 00:47:50.760
dad and parents and Mitch where they went fishing, and

946
00:47:50.840 --> 00:47:53.159
that he would go swimming with Cat and friends from

947
00:47:53.199 --> 00:47:54.159
high school, he told me.

948
00:47:54.519 --> 00:47:56.679
So he utilized familiar places.

949
00:47:56.719 --> 00:47:59.320
So I don't know where else he put but he

950
00:47:59.360 --> 00:48:02.159
went to different rivers, Yeah, over the course of days.

951
00:48:02.159 --> 00:48:04.400
And he did it in the day and at nighttime

952
00:48:05.239 --> 00:48:06.800
so that it wouldn't be caught.

953
00:48:06.840 --> 00:48:09.400
And so he used to feutilize the freezer.

954
00:48:10.559 --> 00:48:13.159
And he put the body parts in the freezer on

955
00:48:13.320 --> 00:48:15.000
ice and then took his backpack.

956
00:48:15.039 --> 00:48:16.199
He told me he.

957
00:48:17.639 --> 00:48:21.320
Because his garage is how his house was set up.

958
00:48:21.360 --> 00:48:23.880
His garage is connecteds. You pull into the garage and

959
00:48:23.920 --> 00:48:25.599
you can go into the house from the garage, but

960
00:48:25.719 --> 00:48:28.079
you can shut your garage door. That was how he

961
00:48:28.159 --> 00:48:30.800
was able to kind of get away with loading into

962
00:48:30.880 --> 00:48:31.559
the trunk.

963
00:48:31.320 --> 00:48:31.920
Of the car.

964
00:48:35.360 --> 00:48:38.880
Did he ever say directly that kat was helping him

965
00:48:39.000 --> 00:48:40.880
or did he kind of imply it?

966
00:48:41.000 --> 00:48:44.159
Or he did? He did? He told me, He told

967
00:48:44.199 --> 00:48:45.599
me a few times. He said that she.

968
00:48:45.639 --> 00:48:47.360
Knew when she was cleaning up the blood in the

969
00:48:47.360 --> 00:48:50.559
bathroom because there was so much blood that she knew,

970
00:48:50.639 --> 00:48:53.599
and that they had a talk in person without their

971
00:48:53.639 --> 00:48:56.800
phones and stuff being electronics being present so that nothing

972
00:48:56.840 --> 00:48:58.960
could hear. Now, I don't know if that's true that

973
00:49:00.159 --> 00:49:03.400
she knew, because that was the only way in his mind,

974
00:49:03.800 --> 00:49:06.199
she really wanted to be with him and start a

975
00:49:06.199 --> 00:49:08.320
life with him and want this house and all the

976
00:49:08.360 --> 00:49:11.280
stuff that he couldn't even do. So he wanted that

977
00:49:11.320 --> 00:49:13.800
life insurance money and so that he told her we're

978
00:49:13.800 --> 00:49:15.599
going to be fine, and we're gonna be set because

979
00:49:15.599 --> 00:49:16.960
I'm going to get this insurance money.

980
00:49:17.039 --> 00:49:18.000
That's what he told me.

981
00:49:18.079 --> 00:49:20.960
That she thought that they were gonna And that's why

982
00:49:21.000 --> 00:49:23.559
I think it's gets a little touchy because he felt

983
00:49:23.559 --> 00:49:24.119
like that.

984
00:49:24.360 --> 00:49:25.159
The mom and them.

985
00:49:25.519 --> 00:49:27.960
He always led me to believe the cat, and her

986
00:49:28.000 --> 00:49:29.920
mom did kind of know more, but I don't know

987
00:49:29.960 --> 00:49:32.679
if they really did or if they really just believed

988
00:49:32.760 --> 00:49:35.760
him because he's so manipulative. But he told me that

989
00:49:35.800 --> 00:49:40.840
when she was helping with the cleanup process, and it's

990
00:49:40.880 --> 00:49:43.400
a little weird because he was driving the dad's car

991
00:49:43.480 --> 00:49:45.639
and any other time before that, she always had to

992
00:49:45.639 --> 00:49:47.360
give him a ride. So he said unless she was

993
00:49:47.440 --> 00:49:49.400
if she was working, and she was a pharmacy tech,

994
00:49:49.880 --> 00:49:52.199
she was working or something. He didn't have a ride anywhere,

995
00:49:52.199 --> 00:49:54.519
and his dad would not let him use the Subaru,

996
00:49:54.639 --> 00:49:56.960
and his mom worked too, and they were very He

997
00:49:57.039 --> 00:49:59.280
said his dad was frugal and his parents did not

998
00:49:59.320 --> 00:50:01.320
want him using the cars, and they would not even

999
00:50:01.440 --> 00:50:05.360
buy him his own car. That's so he didn't have anything.

1000
00:50:05.440 --> 00:50:08.679
I think he was just resentful because he sees like,

1001
00:50:08.719 --> 00:50:10.400
you know, he's just home and he has no way

1002
00:50:10.440 --> 00:50:12.880
to even go anywhere. He's I think he did this

1003
00:50:12.920 --> 00:50:15.119
as a way that he thought he'd get a house, money,

1004
00:50:15.119 --> 00:50:18.360
have cars, and even at the time he still didn't

1005
00:50:18.360 --> 00:50:20.320
even have that much money, because he told me he

1006
00:50:20.360 --> 00:50:22.599
didn't even have really money to eat or anything like that.

1007
00:50:22.639 --> 00:50:23.519
He was using his dad.

1008
00:50:23.559 --> 00:50:26.079
He went to get used the free coffee, and he

1009
00:50:26.159 --> 00:50:29.519
was using different reward points and other like other food

1010
00:50:29.559 --> 00:50:32.239
and stuff like that to even get by. He told

1011
00:50:32.239 --> 00:50:33.880
me he was going to try to find a job,

1012
00:50:36.159 --> 00:50:38.559
and I'm like thinking, like find a job now, like

1013
00:50:38.639 --> 00:50:41.960
after he's already done all this stuff. So he was

1014
00:50:42.079 --> 00:50:48.000
very very delusional, like before he got caught. Yeah, Betel, Yeah,

1015
00:50:48.079 --> 00:50:50.559
so he was like in the stages of cleaning and

1016
00:50:50.599 --> 00:50:50.840
all that.

1017
00:50:50.880 --> 00:50:53.000
So he said when she brought the swiffer and the

1018
00:50:53.119 --> 00:50:53.519
H two.

1019
00:50:53.400 --> 00:50:55.480
O and all that kind of stuff, that she did

1020
00:50:55.599 --> 00:50:57.920
know that what was the what was going on. I

1021
00:50:57.960 --> 00:51:00.599
don't know if she really did, but that after that

1022
00:51:01.079 --> 00:51:02.440
he thought he would get away with it and then

1023
00:51:02.480 --> 00:51:04.440
he was going to try to find an actual job.

1024
00:51:05.039 --> 00:51:11.599
But app get a job, Yeah, he.

1025
00:51:11.599 --> 00:51:12.840
Did think that he would.

1026
00:51:13.000 --> 00:51:17.079
Yeah, and he's never really worked because he lied about it.

1027
00:51:17.119 --> 00:51:19.880
He's never really held a job even at the prison.

1028
00:51:19.960 --> 00:51:24.559
He's kind of switched around jobs, been in trouble, Like

1029
00:51:25.559 --> 00:51:31.199
it's just like very lazy, wants things handed to him.

1030
00:51:31.440 --> 00:51:35.360
Now, you said he couldn't lift, did he he told

1031
00:51:35.400 --> 00:51:38.239
you he couldn't lift the bodies? Did he say? Someone?

1032
00:51:38.880 --> 00:51:41.760
That's why he he told me, that's why he decided

1033
00:51:41.800 --> 00:51:46.239
to dismember them because he could not move them, and

1034
00:51:46.280 --> 00:51:48.159
that he told me he wasn't eating at the time

1035
00:51:48.199 --> 00:51:51.159
and stuff like that because being isolated in his room

1036
00:51:51.199 --> 00:51:54.119
whatever and pretending to work in school. And he was

1037
00:51:54.159 --> 00:51:55.639
already one hundred and thirty I think he was only

1038
00:51:55.679 --> 00:51:57.679
one hundred and thirty five pounds, So he didn't he

1039
00:51:57.760 --> 00:52:00.559
physically couldn't. And he did say he impered it to

1040
00:52:00.599 --> 00:52:02.719
a movie and TV show. It's not like the movie

1041
00:52:02.800 --> 00:52:05.719
or TV shows. I couldn't, like couldn't move them, and

1042
00:52:05.800 --> 00:52:07.000
he had to move them all the way from the

1043
00:52:07.039 --> 00:52:09.679
basement to go to the garage that's attached to the house.

1044
00:52:09.719 --> 00:52:12.519
So he decided to dismember. And he also told me

1045
00:52:12.559 --> 00:52:15.079
that dismemberment was actually harder than he thought. He thought

1046
00:52:15.119 --> 00:52:16.800
he was going to be able to saw through and

1047
00:52:16.840 --> 00:52:19.840
all this stuff. He used multiple different tools to try

1048
00:52:19.840 --> 00:52:23.440
to cut through because he couldn't get it to cut,

1049
00:52:23.840 --> 00:52:26.519
get the bodies to cut. So he went out and

1050
00:52:26.519 --> 00:52:28.639
got ice, and then he pulled all the fruit out

1051
00:52:28.679 --> 00:52:32.239
of his chest freezer that was down the stairs, put

1052
00:52:32.280 --> 00:52:34.320
the ice in there, and then put the body parts

1053
00:52:34.320 --> 00:52:35.079
in there and move them.

1054
00:52:35.199 --> 00:52:37.280
He told me, over days.

1055
00:52:37.679 --> 00:52:40.000
How are you feeling when he was telling you all this,

1056
00:52:40.199 --> 00:52:42.920
Was it surprising you that he was just opening up

1057
00:52:42.960 --> 00:52:43.440
about it.

1058
00:52:44.840 --> 00:52:45.119
I was.

1059
00:52:45.360 --> 00:52:48.039
I was not as so surprised, just because the detective

1060
00:52:48.079 --> 00:52:49.880
sending me in and like having people talk, and it

1061
00:52:49.920 --> 00:52:52.599
took me months and months and months to get this

1062
00:52:52.960 --> 00:52:55.960
rapport so he would even tell me anything. But I

1063
00:52:56.079 --> 00:53:01.320
was very grossed and sickened and like very the grew someone,

1064
00:53:01.920 --> 00:53:05.159
especially losing my own mother. I don't I don't understand

1065
00:53:05.159 --> 00:53:07.559
because he always said his parents were always told me

1066
00:53:07.639 --> 00:53:10.199
his parents were loving and and stuff like that. It

1067
00:53:10.239 --> 00:53:12.840
wasn't even anything to do with that. They it was

1068
00:53:12.920 --> 00:53:16.719
just tight up. He said he lied for too many

1069
00:53:16.800 --> 00:53:20.199
years that he couldn't get out of it. And he

1070
00:53:20.239 --> 00:53:23.679
said that they kept nagging. It's like his words was

1071
00:53:23.760 --> 00:53:27.159
nagging when they would go and her mom would be like, oh,

1072
00:53:27.159 --> 00:53:28.800
what are you going to provide for my daughter? He

1073
00:53:28.840 --> 00:53:31.800
felt very how he said, was very pressured by everyone

1074
00:53:31.840 --> 00:53:33.320
and pressured by his family.

1075
00:53:33.719 --> 00:53:36.119
Why why is Mitch? Why is Mitch?

1076
00:53:36.199 --> 00:53:38.039
Like have this life and have a house, and you're

1077
00:53:38.079 --> 00:53:40.239
still in our house and you still don't have anything.

1078
00:53:40.239 --> 00:53:44.519
Where's your paycheck? H Where's where's your degree? And that's

1079
00:53:44.559 --> 00:53:47.599
when his father started catching on, and so that's when

1080
00:53:48.840 --> 00:53:52.280
he said that night before the night before, he overheard

1081
00:53:52.320 --> 00:53:55.719
his parents talking in the room and Bart telling Christa

1082
00:53:55.800 --> 00:54:00.039
that he was he knew Chandler was lying and he

1083
00:54:00.079 --> 00:54:01.159
really didn't finish school.

1084
00:54:01.159 --> 00:54:03.239
And that's when he told him how he called the college.

1085
00:54:03.239 --> 00:54:05.719
And then the next day that's when he was gonna,

1086
00:54:05.760 --> 00:54:09.039
you know, they're gonna go. He thought they actually had

1087
00:54:09.039 --> 00:54:12.440
a meeting. Unfortunately, I don't know. I think he would

1088
00:54:12.480 --> 00:54:15.400
have done it either way. But there was never a fight.

1089
00:54:15.480 --> 00:54:17.440
His dad never got to confront him. He told me

1090
00:54:17.480 --> 00:54:19.840
his dad didn't even know what happened, Like his dad

1091
00:54:19.880 --> 00:54:23.480
never saw him, wow, because he came out and his

1092
00:54:23.559 --> 00:54:25.760
dad's back was to him and then he just put

1093
00:54:25.760 --> 00:54:29.840
the gun to his back. So his dad never never

1094
00:54:29.960 --> 00:54:32.719
even probably knew what was even happening to him in

1095
00:54:32.800 --> 00:54:33.280
that moment.

1096
00:54:36.360 --> 00:54:41.239
But his mom, his mom knew he came in the

1097
00:54:41.239 --> 00:54:44.960
front door and she and she came in the front

1098
00:54:44.960 --> 00:54:46.480
door and she had the soda and stuff, and he

1099
00:54:46.519 --> 00:54:48.559
just came out from the side and then he shot.

1100
00:54:48.280 --> 00:54:52.960
Her too twice and then he had to try to drag.

1101
00:54:52.719 --> 00:54:54.159
Her body down to there.

1102
00:54:54.880 --> 00:54:59.039
He dragged her down there because he had a hard time.

1103
00:54:59.119 --> 00:55:01.079
It was like taking him, like he said, it was

1104
00:55:01.079 --> 00:55:04.599
really hard for him, hard with his He said, I

1105
00:55:04.960 --> 00:55:05.440
wasn't strong.

1106
00:55:05.440 --> 00:55:07.360
I wasn't strong. I didn't know, so I was like

1107
00:55:08.039 --> 00:55:09.119
he would utilize.

1108
00:55:09.400 --> 00:55:10.920
That's why a lot of the stuff was moved in

1109
00:55:10.920 --> 00:55:13.079
the living room because he was trying to utilize different

1110
00:55:13.079 --> 00:55:15.760
pieces of like carpet and other stuff to help drag

1111
00:55:15.880 --> 00:55:18.920
the body to bring it down into the to the

1112
00:55:18.960 --> 00:55:21.599
basement where his dad already was. The reason he had

1113
00:55:21.599 --> 00:55:23.559
his mom be delayed is because he was trying to

1114
00:55:23.639 --> 00:55:25.960
already cover up what he did with his dad so

1115
00:55:26.000 --> 00:55:27.880
that when she came home, he was going to be

1116
00:55:27.920 --> 00:55:32.159
set up for her. So she walked into the situation

1117
00:55:32.920 --> 00:55:34.800
when she saw she was just coming home from work.

1118
00:55:35.880 --> 00:55:39.000
Did he say if she knew or did he shoot

1119
00:55:39.000 --> 00:55:39.719
her from behind?

1120
00:55:39.880 --> 00:55:44.199
She knew, she knew, she knew, she saw she saw

1121
00:55:44.239 --> 00:55:44.800
him before.

1122
00:55:48.239 --> 00:55:52.719
In that moment about you said, detectives will send you

1123
00:55:52.760 --> 00:55:56.880
in to kind of get information, Like what's that like?

1124
00:56:02.239 --> 00:56:05.840
Detectives will send you in to kind of get information,

1125
00:56:06.239 --> 00:56:07.119
like what's that like?

1126
00:56:08.400 --> 00:56:11.599
Yeah, because I am a missing person avocan am my

1127
00:56:11.679 --> 00:56:13.320
degree and all that I've worked with some of the

1128
00:56:13.360 --> 00:56:16.840
detectives in Vegas and Carson City. They won't talk to

1129
00:56:16.880 --> 00:56:18.800
some of the police Sola and I was, I've been

1130
00:56:18.840 --> 00:56:21.679
on this case four years now and my mother was missing

1131
00:56:21.679 --> 00:56:24.719
her son. They're actually from California, and they were doing

1132
00:56:24.760 --> 00:56:28.519
a kind of deal out here in Nevada, illegal kind

1133
00:56:28.559 --> 00:56:31.880
of drug trade type weed thing with cash, and her

1134
00:56:31.960 --> 00:56:35.360
son went missing, and they had they sent me in

1135
00:56:35.400 --> 00:56:37.119
there to talk to some of They sent me in there.

1136
00:56:37.159 --> 00:56:39.519
When they finally caught onto the suspects, they tried to

1137
00:56:39.519 --> 00:56:42.400
flee the country, so I think the FBI and them

1138
00:56:42.440 --> 00:56:44.320
raided them in Montiana. So I ended up being an

1139
00:56:44.400 --> 00:56:48.000
FBI case. And so before it turned to FBI case,

1140
00:56:48.159 --> 00:56:51.400
it was just a little Mono county, little small like

1141
00:56:51.480 --> 00:56:54.199
he's the only prisoner in the like not prisoner, but

1142
00:56:54.400 --> 00:56:58.039
in the jail, him and his wife and someone else.

1143
00:56:58.639 --> 00:57:01.239
But they would have me talk to people to try

1144
00:57:01.280 --> 00:57:04.119
to figure out where, you know, people's remains were, and

1145
00:57:04.159 --> 00:57:06.320
I would actually like go on search parties and like

1146
00:57:06.440 --> 00:57:10.159
lead search parties, search and rescue to help try to

1147
00:57:10.400 --> 00:57:13.280
find And we did end up finding her son, but

1148
00:57:13.360 --> 00:57:17.679
they they dumped him like eighty minutes away, so every

1149
00:57:17.719 --> 00:57:21.599
area we were looking was actually wrong. And so the

1150
00:57:21.639 --> 00:57:23.960
detectives would coach me and tell me this is how

1151
00:57:24.000 --> 00:57:27.360
you talk to someone, and like, tell me how you

1152
00:57:27.440 --> 00:57:32.920
want to utilize. Uh, it's kind of manipulation back to them.

1153
00:57:33.079 --> 00:57:34.679
You don't want to sit there, you don't want to

1154
00:57:34.719 --> 00:57:35.960
badger with questions right away.

1155
00:57:36.679 --> 00:57:38.360
So I never asked him.

1156
00:57:38.559 --> 00:57:42.599
He offered the information to me Chandler, And so that's

1157
00:57:42.679 --> 00:57:43.800
kind of like what I would do.

1158
00:57:43.840 --> 00:57:44.559
They send me in.

1159
00:57:44.679 --> 00:57:46.400
I would go in as if I'm like, you know,

1160
00:57:46.599 --> 00:57:49.480
just this normal person, like hey, okay, not really say

1161
00:57:49.519 --> 00:57:51.400
that I'm working with the police and things like this.

1162
00:57:51.639 --> 00:57:53.840
And then I tried to figure out and get them

1163
00:57:53.880 --> 00:57:56.199
to talk to me to figure out where remains are

1164
00:57:56.239 --> 00:58:00.679
so that I can reunite the person with their family.

1165
00:58:02.519 --> 00:58:04.480
And so those people did get caught, and that's now

1166
00:58:04.559 --> 00:58:08.480
a federal case and the trial is this year. And

1167
00:58:08.480 --> 00:58:12.760
and so we did we did find her son, but

1168
00:58:12.960 --> 00:58:16.679
it did take us to two years two years or so.

1169
00:58:18.360 --> 00:58:19.440
To even find her son.

1170
00:58:19.559 --> 00:58:21.800
So there wasn't very much left, but she at least

1171
00:58:22.239 --> 00:58:23.519
we did a celebration of life.

1172
00:58:23.519 --> 00:58:25.519
I helped the family plan it all.

1173
00:58:25.840 --> 00:58:27.239
And so what I did was I went out to

1174
00:58:27.280 --> 00:58:31.039
California and reading and I helped with the mom. I

1175
00:58:31.119 --> 00:58:33.280
helped she went to different events. I also went to

1176
00:58:33.320 --> 00:58:37.000
lawyers with her, So I kind of knew and utilized

1177
00:58:37.039 --> 00:58:40.360
all my kind of tools that all the detectives and

1178
00:58:40.719 --> 00:58:44.320
I've used to you know, locate missing people. I've had

1179
00:58:44.360 --> 00:58:48.760
local cases like a husband killer's wife and try to

1180
00:58:48.840 --> 00:58:51.119
like that type. That one was a weird case for

1181
00:58:51.159 --> 00:58:53.360
me because he was calling them false tips. Whenever I

1182
00:58:53.400 --> 00:58:56.039
would get these leads or tips, they always somehow linked

1183
00:58:56.079 --> 00:58:56.639
back to him.

1184
00:58:56.679 --> 00:58:59.960
So we kind of started knowing he did get guilt.

1185
00:59:00.079 --> 00:59:02.480
See he didn't get the we have death penalty here.

1186
00:59:02.559 --> 00:59:05.440
He didn't get the death penalty because he did take

1187
00:59:05.480 --> 00:59:08.880
that plea. But yeah, so I've been I've been doing

1188
00:59:08.920 --> 00:59:12.320
it before I even a new Chandler's case since twenty twenty.

1189
00:59:12.480 --> 00:59:17.800
So I kind of just utilize my empathetic and just

1190
00:59:17.880 --> 00:59:18.960
kind of like giving.

1191
00:59:18.719 --> 00:59:20.920
My ears so he won't he It was.

1192
00:59:21.239 --> 00:59:23.920
It was hard, and still I still think there's things

1193
00:59:23.960 --> 00:59:26.559
that I he didn't tell me, and there's probably stuff

1194
00:59:26.599 --> 00:59:29.960
that I still don't know about everything.

1195
00:59:30.079 --> 00:59:32.079
You know, I don't think he said everything.

1196
00:59:32.119 --> 00:59:35.559
And I think that he played victim a lot because

1197
00:59:36.000 --> 00:59:36.760
he did that.

1198
00:59:37.000 --> 00:59:37.800
He's always said he.

1199
00:59:37.719 --> 00:59:40.199
Did it by himself to me, and I don't think

1200
00:59:40.239 --> 00:59:42.719
he had any help at all within me. I don't

1201
00:59:42.719 --> 00:59:44.519
even think he knew that a clean up. I think

1202
00:59:44.559 --> 00:59:47.760
she just was manipulated and brainwashed. I don't think that

1203
00:59:48.000 --> 00:59:50.920
people want to believe that someone like that could actually

1204
00:59:50.960 --> 00:59:54.559
like he's very reserved and quiet, so I don't think they.

1205
00:59:54.519 --> 00:59:56.679
Thought he was even capable of doing that.

1206
00:59:56.760 --> 00:59:59.519
I just don't understand because it did find the body

1207
00:59:59.519 --> 01:00:01.360
on the prop property type thing, and that's when he

1208
01:00:01.400 --> 01:00:04.360
was saying why they didn't cover for him that they knew,

1209
01:00:04.679 --> 01:00:07.119
which always was a little weird to me because it

1210
01:00:07.199 --> 01:00:08.960
is kind of true, like if I had if someone

1211
01:00:09.000 --> 01:00:11.280
put if there's a body found my property and it

1212
01:00:11.320 --> 01:00:14.320
was I don't know why they were still talking to him,

1213
01:00:14.760 --> 01:00:18.119
but they were sending him like money and gifts and sweatshirt.

1214
01:00:18.199 --> 01:00:21.360
He said he started sweatshirt from them. They could just

1215
01:00:21.360 --> 01:00:23.880
have been very manipulated by him and just not wanting

1216
01:00:24.000 --> 01:00:27.039
to believe it. How he talks on the prison calls

1217
01:00:27.079 --> 01:00:29.559
is how he speaks to it. Hey, how you doing, like, oh,

1218
01:00:29.599 --> 01:00:32.360
what's going on today? Like you would never even know

1219
01:00:32.400 --> 01:00:33.079
he did anything.

1220
01:00:34.039 --> 01:00:37.079
Yeah, it seemed like they just didn't want to accept

1221
01:00:37.079 --> 01:00:40.719
the fact. And it sounded like too that that might

1222
01:00:40.800 --> 01:00:44.880
have been part of the reason Dull Dulcey and her

1223
01:00:44.920 --> 01:00:49.960
fiance broke up, because I know they surely they.

1224
01:00:49.880 --> 01:00:50.800
Were fighting over it.

1225
01:00:50.920 --> 01:00:53.159
Yeah, they were fighting over it, because I think that

1226
01:00:54.039 --> 01:00:56.480
what he said, Yeah he said, so he.

1227
01:00:56.400 --> 01:00:58.079
Lied to me. So he told me they stopped talking

1228
01:00:58.079 --> 01:00:59.039
to him sooner than they did.

1229
01:00:59.039 --> 01:01:00.599
But they'd actually talked to me for a lot on

1230
01:01:00.639 --> 01:01:03.280
those recordings, and I had confronted him again, and guess

1231
01:01:03.280 --> 01:01:05.079
he got angry and said, I don't know why you

1232
01:01:05.159 --> 01:01:07.199
keep bringing up Cat. I never think about her or

1233
01:01:07.239 --> 01:01:10.400
her mom, And who cares if my timeline was off

1234
01:01:10.400 --> 01:01:12.559
by four or five months?

1235
01:01:12.840 --> 01:01:13.280
What right?

1236
01:01:13.480 --> 01:01:14.639
Four or five months?

1237
01:01:14.679 --> 01:01:17.079
They still talk to him, and he's telling me they

1238
01:01:17.119 --> 01:01:19.320
abandoned him and they left him and they got him

1239
01:01:19.360 --> 01:01:21.079
in trouble and they knew what was going on, but

1240
01:01:21.880 --> 01:01:25.559
I but that's it. They were sending him stuff and

1241
01:01:25.639 --> 01:01:28.400
she said that the mom. Would you know he still

1242
01:01:28.440 --> 01:01:32.800
has a sweatshirt to this day from the mom.

1243
01:01:33.079 --> 01:01:37.480
So you saw him the September twenty sixth, September twenty seventh,

1244
01:01:37.719 --> 01:01:39.119
did you see him that time?

1245
01:01:39.159 --> 01:01:40.920
On the twentyeighth? No?

1246
01:01:41.000 --> 01:01:44.119
Nine person, just some video. Yeah, the twentieth, I went home,

1247
01:01:44.119 --> 01:01:47.880
so I didn't see him. Only went to Dodge two days, two.

1248
01:01:47.760 --> 01:01:52.400
Days, and then was that you said to zoom call

1249
01:01:52.599 --> 01:01:53.440
on the twenty eighth.

1250
01:01:53.679 --> 01:01:57.320
I we've been. I don't even know how many visits

1251
01:01:57.320 --> 01:01:58.920
we have. I'm sure you could pull it up.

1252
01:01:58.960 --> 01:02:00.800
I know someone had it on a little while back,

1253
01:02:00.840 --> 01:02:03.480
but I guess it got deleted when we were doing

1254
01:02:03.519 --> 01:02:04.039
the zoom.

1255
01:02:04.159 --> 01:02:05.199
Those weren't recorded.

1256
01:02:05.280 --> 01:02:08.159
Then they switched over to go through the same phone

1257
01:02:08.199 --> 01:02:09.800
company I see as solutions.

1258
01:02:10.360 --> 01:02:12.000
You could schedule visiting on there.

1259
01:02:12.079 --> 01:02:14.039
He can or I can't, and you'd get a visit

1260
01:02:14.119 --> 01:02:17.079
on there, and we would do those visits. And he

1261
01:02:17.159 --> 01:02:19.800
doesn't talk on that one because those are all recorded.

1262
01:02:19.920 --> 01:02:24.440
He talks, but he won't talk about that stuff. There's

1263
01:02:24.480 --> 01:02:27.119
times on the phone calls like yeah, there's phone calls

1264
01:02:27.119 --> 01:02:29.559
that we talked about, like his appeal and he told

1265
01:02:29.599 --> 01:02:33.280
me about that no merit because the lawyer didn't think

1266
01:02:33.280 --> 01:02:35.800
there was any grounds for appeal. So I know he

1267
01:02:36.039 --> 01:02:38.800
filed an appeal on his own. So he's going to

1268
01:02:38.840 --> 01:02:41.599
try to fight this still, but he'd be his own lawyer.

1269
01:02:41.920 --> 01:02:47.239
With the other people, there's that guy that a pastor

1270
01:02:47.360 --> 01:02:50.280
that killed his family. So he's in there with another guy,

1271
01:02:50.719 --> 01:02:52.679
Chris Watts is a mentor in there and like does

1272
01:02:52.679 --> 01:02:56.039
like a ministry thing. And then this other Christopher, this

1273
01:02:56.159 --> 01:03:00.599
Christopher guy, he's this inmate mentor, and so they they're

1274
01:03:00.639 --> 01:03:02.960
all like try to get themselves. So they're trying to

1275
01:03:03.000 --> 01:03:07.000
like help him with it because he wants a new trials.

1276
01:03:08.840 --> 01:03:11.239
He wants to go for some kind of self defense.

1277
01:03:12.000 --> 01:03:13.719
Didn't I asked him, why didn't he do that the

1278
01:03:13.760 --> 01:03:15.639
first time? Why didn't you do that at trial? What

1279
01:03:15.800 --> 01:03:17.840
your public defenders kind of just say, you know, didn't

1280
01:03:17.880 --> 01:03:18.519
have any defense.

1281
01:03:18.559 --> 01:03:19.639
I've never seen a trial like.

1282
01:03:19.840 --> 01:03:22.320
That's another reason why I used his too, because I

1283
01:03:22.400 --> 01:03:24.440
have watched a lot of trials throughout since the nineties,

1284
01:03:24.480 --> 01:03:28.440
and most times someone has something or they're they're picking,

1285
01:03:28.519 --> 01:03:30.880
they're picking at, you know, witnesses, and his kind of

1286
01:03:30.880 --> 01:03:33.960
like no, no questions, no nothing, And he said, oh,

1287
01:03:33.960 --> 01:03:36.039
I did have a defense, but they wouldn't go with

1288
01:03:36.239 --> 01:03:39.679
his defense, which was the self defense because the evidence

1289
01:03:39.679 --> 01:03:42.199
doesn't align with the self defense. That's why they couldn't.

1290
01:03:42.239 --> 01:03:45.840
The public defenders couldn't help him. Those clothes were from

1291
01:03:45.840 --> 01:03:48.719
his public defenders. But since he was wearing was the

1292
01:03:48.719 --> 01:03:52.239
same one they gave him his clothes. The Public Defender's

1293
01:03:52.280 --> 01:03:54.880
office has like the clothes they can borrow and stuff

1294
01:03:54.920 --> 01:03:58.239
like that. And he I asked him what he was doing.

1295
01:03:58.400 --> 01:04:00.320
I said, were you this is in person? What were

1296
01:04:00.360 --> 01:04:01.440
you doing with that paper?

1297
01:04:01.480 --> 01:04:04.039
And pat? Were you doodling? He laughs? He said, ha

1298
01:04:04.039 --> 01:04:05.280
ha ha, Yeah I was.

1299
01:04:05.360 --> 01:04:07.400
I didn't even pay attention to any of it. It

1300
01:04:07.480 --> 01:04:10.079
was boring. I don't know how you watched it. So

1301
01:04:10.119 --> 01:04:12.119
he didn't pay attention to any of his trial, according

1302
01:04:12.159 --> 01:04:13.079
to him, and it's boring.

1303
01:04:14.440 --> 01:04:15.800
He only paid attention.

1304
01:04:15.480 --> 01:04:18.360
When Kat spoke because he felt that she betrayed him.

1305
01:04:20.039 --> 01:04:26.280
Yeah, and that's why, Yeah, he felt betrayed by her.

1306
01:04:26.440 --> 01:04:30.519
That he did this because like of like of yeah,

1307
01:04:30.559 --> 01:04:34.400
and that he and because they stayed talking to him.

1308
01:04:34.519 --> 01:04:37.800
I think he felt, like, you know, he felt very

1309
01:04:37.800 --> 01:04:40.360
big betrayed by her. And he always like, oh, I

1310
01:04:40.360 --> 01:04:42.559
don't care about her, but no, that's not.

1311
01:04:44.719 --> 01:04:44.880
So.

1312
01:04:45.119 --> 01:04:48.719
I feel like, yeah, he uh, probably is very resentful

1313
01:04:48.800 --> 01:04:50.400
because he thinks that he was going to have this

1314
01:04:50.559 --> 01:04:53.400
life that he with her and then he it didn't

1315
01:04:53.480 --> 01:04:55.880
end up that way. And then he finds out during

1316
01:04:55.960 --> 01:05:00.760
the discovery process awaiting his trial that now they actually

1317
01:05:00.840 --> 01:05:01.320
the mom.

1318
01:05:01.280 --> 01:05:03.840
Called there was Turkey voters. Oh, she gave her phone,

1319
01:05:04.320 --> 01:05:06.559
you know up because he told me. The reason he

1320
01:05:06.679 --> 01:05:07.519
hid those.

1321
01:05:07.280 --> 01:05:09.440
Phones with the paper towel on the foil is he

1322
01:05:09.480 --> 01:05:11.679
watched the show that it jams the signal. It's an

1323
01:05:11.719 --> 01:05:14.519
alien show, a sci fi show. He always joke.

1324
01:05:14.559 --> 01:05:15.519
He joked around me once.

1325
01:05:15.559 --> 01:05:17.280
I'm like, oh, I was like, there's a storm coming

1326
01:05:17.280 --> 01:05:19.559
and it's very rare for Vegas, so make sure you

1327
01:05:19.599 --> 01:05:21.920
put your tinfoil on her so that you're the aliens

1328
01:05:21.920 --> 01:05:24.440
don't come get you. So he's very like, very show

1329
01:05:24.480 --> 01:05:27.280
like Star Trek that kind of stuff. So he's in

1330
01:05:27.360 --> 01:05:30.000
his head. He he thought that the phones would wouldn't

1331
01:05:30.039 --> 01:05:31.599
be traced because he wrapped them on foil.

1332
01:05:33.000 --> 01:05:35.519
He just he forgot the most important card, which is

1333
01:05:35.800 --> 01:05:39.679
don't hide them in the clot in the house, in

1334
01:05:39.880 --> 01:05:41.400
the garage. I think they were.

1335
01:05:44.840 --> 01:05:45.400
That was the thing.

1336
01:05:45.480 --> 01:05:48.320
He was mad because he told me, I was really

1337
01:05:48.360 --> 01:05:51.880
mad because his mom's co worker is the one that

1338
01:05:51.920 --> 01:05:55.440
alerted this whole thing. And then he said cat and

1339
01:05:55.480 --> 01:05:59.159
the cat and the don't say and the coworker and

1340
01:05:59.159 --> 01:06:01.079
then made him go to the police and say that

1341
01:06:01.119 --> 01:06:03.079
they were missing. Because it would have been out of character.

1342
01:06:03.159 --> 01:06:05.800
So he didn't know. He in his head, he didn't

1343
01:06:05.800 --> 01:06:08.079
think anybody was gonna even miss his parents.

1344
01:06:08.360 --> 01:06:11.480
He's just gonna just he wipe his hands with it. Yeah,

1345
01:06:11.519 --> 01:06:14.559
So he was all shocked by all the coworkers showing up.

1346
01:06:14.599 --> 01:06:16.440
He told me that the detective came and he was

1347
01:06:16.440 --> 01:06:19.239
in the shower and like he was just really like

1348
01:06:19.440 --> 01:06:23.039
he just couldn't get get himself out of that situation

1349
01:06:23.719 --> 01:06:25.639
in that moment because he didn't even think that was

1350
01:06:25.679 --> 01:06:27.840
going to happen. So that's why it seems so unprepared,

1351
01:06:27.840 --> 01:06:29.440
because he just really thought he was going to He

1352
01:06:29.480 --> 01:06:29.760
just thought.

1353
01:06:29.800 --> 01:06:31.440
He thinks he's smarter than everybody.

1354
01:06:32.559 --> 01:06:35.639
That's so bizarre in a way too, and I'll bet

1355
01:06:35.760 --> 01:06:38.719
you can probably relate to this, is that he seems

1356
01:06:38.920 --> 01:06:42.719
very not like a genius, but he seems at least

1357
01:06:42.800 --> 01:06:46.519
average to above average intelligence. So it's shocking in a

1358
01:06:46.559 --> 01:06:49.880
way to see how naive he is in certain areas.

1359
01:06:50.239 --> 01:06:52.280
And I think he gets a naiveness because he's like

1360
01:06:52.360 --> 01:06:55.440
taking things from movies and this show was in fiction shows,

1361
01:06:55.440 --> 01:06:59.880
and like you know, that's he basing and mimicking things off,

1362
01:07:00.079 --> 01:07:02.559
and is how he acts off of that, and so

1363
01:07:02.599 --> 01:07:04.360
he kind of tried to cover it up like this.

1364
01:07:04.599 --> 01:07:06.559
Do you never some of that? Do you think some

1365
01:07:06.599 --> 01:07:10.280
of that is also there's narcissism of just underestimating that

1366
01:07:10.360 --> 01:07:14.519
other people have common sense and intelligence.

1367
01:07:15.079 --> 01:07:15.800
I do think that.

1368
01:07:15.840 --> 01:07:17.679
I think that he does feel like he's smarter and

1369
01:07:17.719 --> 01:07:20.400
above ever, I think he thinks he's more intelligent than

1370
01:07:20.480 --> 01:07:23.119
most of the population. That's how he's talked to me.

1371
01:07:23.199 --> 01:07:25.159
He thinks he's smarter than all the other inmates at

1372
01:07:25.199 --> 01:07:28.880
Dodge too. So he thinks that that's why he feels

1373
01:07:28.920 --> 01:07:32.159
so betrayed because he doesn't realize that his own mistakes

1374
01:07:32.639 --> 01:07:36.639
are how stupid and horrible of a thing gruesome that

1375
01:07:36.719 --> 01:07:38.920
he did. It's more like, oh, a cat, and then

1376
01:07:38.920 --> 01:07:40.880
told her her mom called about Turkey voters.

1377
01:07:40.920 --> 01:07:41.559
The co worker.

1378
01:07:41.639 --> 01:07:46.960
It's everybody else's fault but him, and he was lying

1379
01:07:47.000 --> 01:07:50.119
for like five six years old pathological liar on top

1380
01:07:50.159 --> 01:07:50.360
of there.

1381
01:07:50.400 --> 01:07:52.800
But he doesn't believe his own lies. That's the thing.

1382
01:07:52.920 --> 01:07:55.840
He knows that he's lying. He knows a set of

1383
01:07:55.920 --> 01:07:59.440
a pathological liar. When you start lying and you do lies,

1384
01:07:59.519 --> 01:08:02.960
normally start believing him. You started believing your own lies.

1385
01:08:03.000 --> 01:08:05.840
And that's how sometimes criminals can be like a lie detector.

1386
01:08:06.239 --> 01:08:09.320
He really does not believe his own lines. He knows

1387
01:08:09.320 --> 01:08:11.960
he's lying. That's what's really weird about his personality.

1388
01:08:14.039 --> 01:08:17.159
Can you talk a little bit about the romance aspect.

1389
01:08:17.560 --> 01:08:21.079
Is that how you were able to set up an

1390
01:08:21.119 --> 01:08:23.600
in person interview in the first place. Had you already

1391
01:08:23.640 --> 01:08:24.520
gained that trust?

1392
01:08:24.720 --> 01:08:28.119
And Yeah, so I already gained that trust when I

1393
01:08:28.199 --> 01:08:31.720
went there in person. He called me on the second

1394
01:08:31.800 --> 01:08:33.920
day when I was leaving, so I went back on

1395
01:08:33.960 --> 01:08:35.880
the Tuesday I left after he told me.

1396
01:08:35.880 --> 01:08:36.640
All this stuff.

1397
01:08:37.199 --> 01:08:39.960
I was driving back in from Dodge and I went

1398
01:08:40.000 --> 01:08:42.239
down to Milwaukee and I was like going through this

1399
01:08:42.319 --> 01:08:44.319
march and he called me and he's like, oh, I

1400
01:08:44.359 --> 01:08:46.159
wanted to make sure you're a right. I'm like, I'm fine,

1401
01:08:46.479 --> 01:08:48.359
and you I have my rental car and he's like, oh,

1402
01:08:48.399 --> 01:08:51.359
I love you. That's when he started love bombing me.

1403
01:08:51.600 --> 01:08:55.159
Was like six months into it. That was after he started,

1404
01:08:55.560 --> 01:08:59.159
before after I met him.

1405
01:08:59.279 --> 01:09:01.600
What was that like? Were you unprepared for him to

1406
01:09:01.640 --> 01:09:02.000
say that?

1407
01:09:02.479 --> 01:09:04.279
Yeah, I didn't know what to say, so I couldn't

1408
01:09:04.319 --> 01:09:06.319
even say it back. So I just didn't say anything,

1409
01:09:07.000 --> 01:09:08.359
and he said I didn't have to say it back.

1410
01:09:08.439 --> 01:09:10.159
You don't have to say it back, but I love you.

1411
01:09:10.199 --> 01:09:13.319
And that's how that went. And so then he would

1412
01:09:13.319 --> 01:09:15.439
send me yeah, like just like I was reading you

1413
01:09:15.479 --> 01:09:17.439
that like little card and stuff like that, like oh

1414
01:09:17.560 --> 01:09:19.880
happy Easter, oh this that like. The last time he

1415
01:09:20.039 --> 01:09:23.079
wrote me was recently, like he was mad about it.

1416
01:09:23.279 --> 01:09:28.039
So he was like, he's like, Lisa, hey, I'll keep

1417
01:09:28.039 --> 01:09:30.199
this short. Did you block my calls and ghost me?

1418
01:09:30.319 --> 01:09:32.760
I can't keep doing this. Prison is hard enough.

1419
01:09:32.520 --> 01:09:34.399
To deal with it, and now I'm dealing with it alone.

1420
01:09:34.479 --> 01:09:37.800
So go to the newest McDonald get their WiFi and

1421
01:09:37.880 --> 01:09:40.079
send me a quick message to tell me what's going on.

1422
01:09:40.159 --> 01:09:41.960
If you want me to leave you alone, then just

1423
01:09:42.000 --> 01:09:43.920
say so. But until I get something from you, I'll

1424
01:09:43.920 --> 01:09:44.439
be missing you.

1425
01:09:44.479 --> 01:09:47.359
And so I wrote him on the correlings and told him, no,

1426
01:09:47.399 --> 01:09:50.359
I'm not talking to you and you need to take accountability.

1427
01:09:50.479 --> 01:09:53.479
Then he wrote me back, I think I have it.

1428
01:09:53.560 --> 01:09:56.000
So he told me, hey.

1429
01:09:55.920 --> 01:09:57.920
I'm sorry you feel gass light and all that.

1430
01:09:58.000 --> 01:09:59.880
But the only person that I signed Love and rock

1431
01:10:00.239 --> 01:10:02.279
is my guy from County that I got to talk

1432
01:10:02.319 --> 01:10:04.640
to here. He always signed Love of Rockets, but he

1433
01:10:04.760 --> 01:10:06.760
used me to get my letters and whatnot. I can

1434
01:10:06.840 --> 01:10:08.960
send you a full one of his letters where it

1435
01:10:08.960 --> 01:10:10.800
says that whatever this dude is saying is just for

1436
01:10:10.880 --> 01:10:13.680
clout and money. I was very careful and never talked

1437
01:10:13.680 --> 01:10:16.359
about my case, sing or anyone for that matter. But you,

1438
01:10:17.159 --> 01:10:19.279
I didn't write like that, like that you told me to.

1439
01:10:19.680 --> 01:10:21.399
I didn't mean to adminish you on the phone. It

1440
01:10:21.479 --> 01:10:23.720
was really nice to talk to you again, I replied

1441
01:10:23.720 --> 01:10:25.920
to that girl again. But because she's clear about.

1442
01:10:25.760 --> 01:10:27.800
Having a boyfriend, I started catching on.

1443
01:10:28.119 --> 01:10:30.800
I know there was no grinder account again that with

1444
01:10:30.840 --> 01:10:33.079
Michael trying to mess with me in County, I've always

1445
01:10:33.079 --> 01:10:35.439
had girlfriends in my whole life. I like to talk

1446
01:10:35.479 --> 01:10:36.720
to you on the phone, but it seems like you

1447
01:10:36.760 --> 01:10:38.760
made your mind up. But for real, Doli said, thank

1448
01:10:38.840 --> 01:10:41.000
you for talking to me for the last two years.

1449
01:10:41.239 --> 01:10:43.239
It made a difference for me with you motivating me

1450
01:10:43.279 --> 01:10:45.199
to what I can do here. Sorry, I asked to

1451
01:10:45.279 --> 01:10:47.560
end like this. I'm almost one hundred percent positive it's my.

1452
01:10:47.600 --> 01:10:49.520
Friend put in quotations from County.

1453
01:10:49.760 --> 01:10:51.239
I'm glad I got to know you're a great gown

1454
01:10:51.239 --> 01:10:52.800
and good mom. So I hope to hear from you again.

1455
01:10:52.880 --> 01:10:54.039
Googluck out there, I love you.

1456
01:10:56.520 --> 01:10:57.920
When did you send you that letter?

1457
01:10:59.199 --> 01:11:01.960
It was eight twenty three, twenty four.

1458
01:11:02.920 --> 01:11:04.800
Oh wow, so really recent.

1459
01:11:06.239 --> 01:11:08.000
And so I said, I understand this is probably not

1460
01:11:08.039 --> 01:11:08.840
what you want to hear.

1461
01:11:09.000 --> 01:11:11.359
No, but I don't want to talk to you anymore.

1462
01:11:11.439 --> 01:11:13.680
I knew you have been writing girls and that you lie.

1463
01:11:14.239 --> 01:11:17.600
I tried to advise you that not to lie to me.

1464
01:11:17.640 --> 01:11:19.640
I'm sorry, but I don't believe as a boyfriend as

1465
01:11:19.680 --> 01:11:22.520
you're trying to claim. No one with any man who's

1466
01:11:22.560 --> 01:11:24.840
going to write someone that's on the inside. Also wrong

1467
01:11:24.920 --> 01:11:26.920
that you didn't tell me a few weeks back when

1468
01:11:26.960 --> 01:11:31.119
I asked. Also, those canteen and funds are you're being

1469
01:11:31.159 --> 01:11:33.800
funded as well as other fans trying to fish for

1470
01:11:33.840 --> 01:11:36.479
information or letter back. You didn't tell me about this girl,

1471
01:11:36.560 --> 01:11:39.359
and you didn't tell me about anybody sending you money.

1472
01:11:39.359 --> 01:11:41.760
You've led me to believe that you were alone in there.

1473
01:11:41.920 --> 01:11:43.800
I told you to be honest because my name is

1474
01:11:43.840 --> 01:11:45.880
linked to yours, giving me death threats and all sorts of.

1475
01:11:45.920 --> 01:11:48.039
I had death threats in the past, and all.

1476
01:11:47.880 --> 01:11:52.079
Sorts of stuff. Again, I clearly thought you weren't doing

1477
01:11:52.239 --> 01:11:54.800
any of this stuff. Do you even understand that.

1478
01:11:54.840 --> 01:11:56.760
Heart and pain that you caused people.

1479
01:11:57.359 --> 01:11:59.359
You swore no one sent you money. You swear you

1480
01:11:59.399 --> 01:12:02.479
don't write any one, but now that's not true. I

1481
01:12:02.520 --> 01:12:04.399
appreciate your lives to talk about. I need to be honest,

1482
01:12:04.439 --> 01:12:07.199
but how I'm feeling, I'm not going to move past

1483
01:12:07.239 --> 01:12:09.960
the lives and miscommunications that have come to light, especially

1484
01:12:09.960 --> 01:12:12.960
regarding a situating in that girl and other documents I

1485
01:12:13.079 --> 01:12:14.239
saw from Dane County.

1486
01:12:14.359 --> 01:12:15.479
That's kind of plain right.

1487
01:12:15.680 --> 01:12:18.000
Plus, you assured me you weren't doing anything. You mentioned

1488
01:12:18.039 --> 01:12:20.600
you applied to her, but it sounds like you're like her.

1489
01:12:20.680 --> 01:12:22.479
Clarity about having a boyfriend being with him might not

1490
01:12:22.600 --> 01:12:24.720
align with that. I've been seen and told you if

1491
01:12:24.760 --> 01:12:27.239
that's what you want, to go ahead and entertain her.

1492
01:12:27.720 --> 01:12:31.159
I thought we built a foundation, but I guess not,

1493
01:12:31.319 --> 01:12:35.039
because all you have done is gave me inconsistencies. It's

1494
01:12:35.159 --> 01:12:37.560
really difficult for me to ever believe in you again.

1495
01:12:38.479 --> 01:12:41.920
I think you misled me, and I want to I

1496
01:12:41.960 --> 01:12:45.319
have to. This has forced me to reconsider everything and

1497
01:12:45.479 --> 01:12:47.239
take his time through. I think you should take this

1498
01:12:47.359 --> 01:12:50.079
time to reflect who you've pushed away, lives to enheart to,

1499
01:12:50.199 --> 01:12:53.000
including me. I wish you the best to take care

1500
01:12:54.119 --> 01:12:55.840
that's back to and I haven't heard from.

1501
01:12:55.640 --> 01:12:59.319
Since this hall was basically this month.

1502
01:13:00.079 --> 01:13:02.159
Yes, I haven't been talking to him for a while,

1503
01:13:02.640 --> 01:13:06.079
beginning I moved to a different place, uh here in Vegas.

1504
01:13:06.800 --> 01:13:09.279
I stopped talking to him before I moved. So I

1505
01:13:09.319 --> 01:13:11.720
want to say in April, like, I haven't been talking

1506
01:13:11.720 --> 01:13:14.880
to him. So I was I blocked to prison, but

1507
01:13:14.960 --> 01:13:16.520
I blocked it through my iPhone.

1508
01:13:17.079 --> 01:13:19.079
So he that's why he told me to go get

1509
01:13:19.119 --> 01:13:20.159
the nearest WiFi.

1510
01:13:20.399 --> 01:13:22.279
He thinks that I don't have Wi Fi or something

1511
01:13:22.319 --> 01:13:24.239
like that, because he said he's been trying to because

1512
01:13:24.279 --> 01:13:26.479
he's been trying to call me. When he's trying to

1513
01:13:26.520 --> 01:13:28.760
call me previously, I already knew he was kind of

1514
01:13:28.800 --> 01:13:30.920
lying to me. And I didn't want my energy mix

1515
01:13:31.000 --> 01:13:33.279
with anymore. And I didn't have any use for anything

1516
01:13:33.279 --> 01:13:36.479
else with him, and I wanted to just break away

1517
01:13:36.520 --> 01:13:37.279
for it from it.

1518
01:13:37.399 --> 01:13:38.960
So I just didn't know what to do. So I

1519
01:13:39.000 --> 01:13:41.279
just blocked him from I just blocked him from my

1520
01:13:41.319 --> 01:13:42.199
iPhone and stuff.

1521
01:13:43.439 --> 01:13:45.479
Yeah, yeah, wow.

1522
01:13:49.560 --> 01:13:51.039
I didn't know whether I didn't know.

1523
01:13:51.199 --> 01:13:53.399
I didn't even know any like this stuff like I

1524
01:13:53.560 --> 01:13:55.439
I didn't know until I went. But when I went

1525
01:13:55.520 --> 01:13:57.560
on to Reddit. I didn't even know because that that

1526
01:13:58.199 --> 01:13:59.920
his old sell I know who that is.

1527
01:14:00.319 --> 01:14:02.800
I know that Michael guy. I know he spoke to

1528
01:14:02.840 --> 01:14:08.119
me about him. So yes, it's like when he is cornered. Yes,

1529
01:14:08.760 --> 01:14:09.800
that's the guy you talked to.

1530
01:14:09.920 --> 01:14:12.760
So it's like when he's cornered, he'll admit to some

1531
01:14:12.840 --> 01:14:14.520
of it, but he spins it around like, oh, he

1532
01:14:14.600 --> 01:14:18.439
just wants clout and money. It's not true. I'll send

1533
01:14:18.439 --> 01:14:21.079
you a letter from him. It's like, I don't want

1534
01:14:21.119 --> 01:14:22.640
to see the letter here, And he's like, that is

1535
01:14:22.760 --> 01:14:23.239
that is.

1536
01:14:23.159 --> 01:14:25.079
How he writes. That is that is a real letter.

1537
01:14:25.239 --> 01:14:26.920
That is not that read. I know people question it.

1538
01:14:26.920 --> 01:14:31.680
That is that is him. That is Chandler. So yeah,

1539
01:14:31.800 --> 01:14:34.640
then I didn't know about him writing other girls and stuff.

1540
01:14:34.680 --> 01:14:36.239
He told me he was all alone. So then all

1541
01:14:36.239 --> 01:14:39.039
of a sudden he's telling me, no girl's writing him.

1542
01:14:39.399 --> 01:14:39.880
That girl.

1543
01:14:40.279 --> 01:14:42.960
It's this girl who's from Ohio and she is one

1544
01:14:42.960 --> 01:14:45.560
of those fan girls who has been sending him money

1545
01:14:45.560 --> 01:14:47.880
and packages and stuff like that. So I guess he

1546
01:14:48.000 --> 01:14:50.239
must be. And I'm sure he's been talking to a

1547
01:14:50.279 --> 01:14:52.479
bunch of other people this whole time. But this whole

1548
01:14:52.479 --> 01:14:54.840
time he kept when I would he would lead me

1549
01:14:54.920 --> 01:14:57.560
to believe that there was no like he's so alone,

1550
01:14:57.600 --> 01:14:59.319
just like I told you in the letter I just read,

1551
01:14:59.600 --> 01:15:01.960
Oh I I'm so alone. You left me alone in here,

1552
01:15:02.000 --> 01:15:04.840
and he goes, you're not alone, Like you're not alone.

1553
01:15:04.880 --> 01:15:05.560
You write people.

1554
01:15:05.640 --> 01:15:07.199
He didn't even tell me that guy writes and he's

1555
01:15:07.199 --> 01:15:09.680
told me that it's old, the one you interviewed, that

1556
01:15:09.800 --> 01:15:13.039
his old bunk bunkie, that he didn't even talk to him.

1557
01:15:13.079 --> 01:15:16.239
He wasn't writing him any letters back. He's very manipulative

1558
01:15:16.279 --> 01:15:19.039
and making you people try to believe he has and

1559
01:15:19.079 --> 01:15:20.760
you won't ask for money. He'll do it in a

1560
01:15:20.800 --> 01:15:23.960
way so he'll try like he's like try to get

1561
01:15:24.239 --> 01:15:25.720
like he'll get like he did tell me that got

1562
01:15:25.760 --> 01:15:29.479
money from some guy in Canada who was like an

1563
01:15:29.600 --> 01:15:31.279
author's writing a book about him.

1564
01:15:32.279 --> 01:15:33.439
I didn't know about that.

1565
01:15:33.640 --> 01:15:37.319
I saw I saw something on like YouTube or something.

1566
01:15:37.319 --> 01:15:39.359
I'm like, wait what, And then I asked him, you

1567
01:15:39.359 --> 01:15:41.239
have a book getting write about you? Like, I don't

1568
01:15:41.279 --> 01:15:43.199
want to be in a book. I don't want my

1569
01:15:43.279 --> 01:15:47.199
name linked to this anymore. And that's when he said, oh, yeah,

1570
01:15:47.279 --> 01:15:49.000
he's going to write the book with or without me.

1571
01:15:49.079 --> 01:15:50.840
But they gave me a chance to give my side

1572
01:15:50.840 --> 01:15:54.239
of the story, but I'm not going to and this

1573
01:15:54.399 --> 01:15:58.119
guy sent him money, So.

1574
01:16:00.600 --> 01:16:05.640
Yeah, he's so he gets kind of yeah after about it.

1575
01:16:06.239 --> 01:16:08.920
Yeah, yeah, because I would find out through the public

1576
01:16:08.960 --> 01:16:10.920
because and I keep telling your case is public.

1577
01:16:11.199 --> 01:16:12.680
Literally, I don't understand.

1578
01:16:12.760 --> 01:16:15.920
He understands his a high profile case was on court TV,

1579
01:16:16.039 --> 01:16:18.079
like anything that comes out about his case is going

1580
01:16:18.079 --> 01:16:20.720
to be in the public. He just thinks it's a

1581
01:16:20.760 --> 01:16:23.159
little late rinkiny dnkity case. And no, I'm not gonna

1582
01:16:23.199 --> 01:16:25.479
nothing's going to come back or find out anything. So

1583
01:16:25.600 --> 01:16:29.119
I found out from on YouTube or something that there

1584
01:16:29.159 --> 01:16:30.479
was going to be But there's a book and you

1585
01:16:30.560 --> 01:16:33.199
written about him. And then I asked him on like

1586
01:16:33.199 --> 01:16:36.279
a message, like electronic message. Then he admitted to me

1587
01:16:36.359 --> 01:16:38.800
that that someone is writing a book with or without

1588
01:16:38.840 --> 01:16:40.960
his side of the story. They're just giving him a

1589
01:16:41.039 --> 01:16:44.920
chance to say his side. And I don't know, maybe

1590
01:16:44.960 --> 01:16:46.479
one day he will tell people, but.

1591
01:16:46.520 --> 01:16:47.039
I don't know.

1592
01:16:48.159 --> 01:16:52.119
Yeah, because he's like, I don't know, I don't know

1593
01:16:52.119 --> 01:16:52.760
if he will.

1594
01:16:53.680 --> 01:16:56.439
Do you know any of the timeline for the appeals

1595
01:16:57.119 --> 01:16:58.640
that he is trying to.

1596
01:16:58.560 --> 01:17:02.840
File, So he filed trials back of my level mess.

1597
01:17:02.840 --> 01:17:06.439
There's some of us, like the races. After so he

1598
01:17:06.880 --> 01:17:09.439
they filed the no merit, and then after they filed

1599
01:17:09.439 --> 01:17:11.920
the no merit, he filed the appeal. He had like

1600
01:17:11.960 --> 01:17:15.199
I think thirty days after that no merit and he

1601
01:17:15.319 --> 01:17:18.119
filed it. And I think he filed it and he

1602
01:17:18.239 --> 01:17:21.680
told me the grounds were He's going to say that

1603
01:17:21.680 --> 01:17:25.199
they wouldn't let him change counties, that he needed a

1604
01:17:25.199 --> 01:17:30.600
different county, that it was biased because the media, No,

1605
01:17:31.199 --> 01:17:32.760
his defense was inadequate.

1606
01:17:33.840 --> 01:17:34.840
Trying to think what else.

1607
01:17:36.560 --> 01:17:38.439
He did it himself, So I just try to think

1608
01:17:38.479 --> 01:17:39.920
off the top of my head what he said, but

1609
01:17:40.000 --> 01:17:42.680
I don't know what the other inmates had like helped

1610
01:17:42.760 --> 01:17:45.880
him write it in legal terms, But that's what he's

1611
01:17:45.920 --> 01:17:47.720
trying to go to try to get. So he's trying

1612
01:17:47.720 --> 01:17:51.880
to get a new trial right in hopes that he

1613
01:17:52.239 --> 01:17:53.560
and then he said, if I don't get out, then

1614
01:17:53.600 --> 01:17:56.319
I'm going to get like legislation will change and I'm

1615
01:17:56.319 --> 01:17:57.840
going to get out one day. So he thinks in

1616
01:17:57.840 --> 01:17:59.680
his head he's going to eventually get out. That's why

1617
01:17:59.680 --> 01:18:02.359
he won't twell his side because he doesn't want to

1618
01:18:02.439 --> 01:18:05.319
ruin it. He doesn't understand that appeals only based off

1619
01:18:05.359 --> 01:18:07.800
the case that was in court. They aren't going to

1620
01:18:07.840 --> 01:18:09.920
go back and they're not going to do all this stuff.

1621
01:18:09.960 --> 01:18:12.760
They're not going to go you know, use what your

1622
01:18:12.800 --> 01:18:16.359
told your grandma or me. It's off what you what

1623
01:18:16.479 --> 01:18:19.079
happened at trial, and the trial was he did it

1624
01:18:19.199 --> 01:18:21.520
and that he's guilty and that's it. Like it's not

1625
01:18:21.560 --> 01:18:25.079
going to change. I tried to tell him that, but

1626
01:18:25.279 --> 01:18:27.920
he just thinks that it will. I don't know, it's

1627
01:18:28.000 --> 01:18:28.800
very delusional.

1628
01:18:30.039 --> 01:18:31.880
Can you talk a little bit about I know this

1629
01:18:32.039 --> 01:18:41.439
is probably uncomfortable, but the can you talk a little

1630
01:18:41.439 --> 01:18:44.800
bit about I know this is probably uncomfortable, but the

1631
01:18:44.880 --> 01:18:47.560
death threats and how this all came to be.

1632
01:18:48.199 --> 01:18:51.439
Yeah, So when it was through Reddit, so I guess

1633
01:18:51.880 --> 01:18:54.760
what happened was I'd already went there and visited in person.

1634
01:18:55.439 --> 01:18:57.439
I didn't even know people would like look into it.

1635
01:18:57.760 --> 01:19:00.760
I think it was someone up from camp or whatnot.

1636
01:19:01.399 --> 01:19:03.119
I did see here and there and read They're like, oh,

1637
01:19:03.159 --> 01:19:05.560
it wasn't even me. They were like someone was paying

1638
01:19:05.600 --> 01:19:09.319
for his packages or like his canteen. Like it's quarterly,

1639
01:19:09.399 --> 01:19:12.119
like every three months. So if it's like starts in

1640
01:19:12.199 --> 01:19:15.119
July first, it's for that three months and you can

1641
01:19:15.199 --> 01:19:17.279
only get hygiene if someone sends it to you from

1642
01:19:17.319 --> 01:19:20.359
the outside, so he can't buy He can buy like

1643
01:19:20.760 --> 01:19:22.920
tooth based stuff there, but not really. There's some stuff

1644
01:19:22.920 --> 01:19:25.039
they cannot buy. It has to be some from the outside.

1645
01:19:25.039 --> 01:19:28.239
So he's been having people send him stuff. So what

1646
01:19:28.319 --> 01:19:30.319
happened is people want to try to see what was

1647
01:19:30.520 --> 01:19:34.800
is someone paid a freedom of information request to get

1648
01:19:34.840 --> 01:19:37.279
the visitor record which had my name on it, and

1649
01:19:37.279 --> 01:19:40.000
they knew I went in person. Breddit's deleted some of

1650
01:19:40.000 --> 01:19:41.600
it now, like I didn't see it when I was

1651
01:19:41.600 --> 01:19:44.520
on there, but they had the visitor log up and

1652
01:19:44.840 --> 01:19:47.399
the guy posted he was from Canada and it had

1653
01:19:47.399 --> 01:19:49.880
my name and I had the day I visited in person,

1654
01:19:49.960 --> 01:19:52.359
and they were kind of they'd seen my profile, so

1655
01:19:52.359 --> 01:19:54.319
they started looking and says my first and last name.

1656
01:19:54.640 --> 01:19:58.000
They found my Instagram, my Facebook, my address. People were

1657
01:19:58.039 --> 01:20:01.079
sending me death threats on them. A post from me

1658
01:20:01.159 --> 01:20:04.279
on Facebook, like from my Facebook where I told someone

1659
01:20:04.279 --> 01:20:06.199
I'm not going to talk to the public, and they

1660
01:20:06.239 --> 01:20:08.119
shared that to the reddit and then people kind of

1661
01:20:08.199 --> 01:20:10.319
roasted me, like, oh, let me just asked me anything

1662
01:20:10.439 --> 01:20:12.920
stuff like that. Before that, though, it was really bad

1663
01:20:12.960 --> 01:20:15.399
on his reddit I mean, they had my name, my picture,

1664
01:20:15.520 --> 01:20:16.560
like my address.

1665
01:20:16.600 --> 01:20:17.680
They totally dosed me.

1666
01:20:18.199 --> 01:20:20.119
And I went to his moderator because I'm in It's

1667
01:20:20.159 --> 01:20:22.079
funny that I'm seeing moderator of his reddit.

1668
01:20:22.159 --> 01:20:23.319
I'm in flight friends.

1669
01:20:23.359 --> 01:20:25.520
So when Gabby Potito's case was going on and they

1670
01:20:25.560 --> 01:20:27.920
were looking for Brian laundry out there in Florida, I

1671
01:20:27.960 --> 01:20:30.720
would be watching on my little flight thing, right, and

1672
01:20:30.800 --> 01:20:33.079
so I'd be on the flight friends, and I still

1673
01:20:33.119 --> 01:20:35.199
have that and like you talk about different flights, and

1674
01:20:35.239 --> 01:20:37.279
so I asked the moderator to remove some of that.

1675
01:20:37.960 --> 01:20:39.119
She said she would with some of it.

1676
01:20:39.239 --> 01:20:42.439
She couldn't because of it being a public freedom of

1677
01:20:42.479 --> 01:20:47.600
information request. So people would write me, sometimes women, sometimes men,

1678
01:20:47.680 --> 01:20:50.279
But most of the death threats were light, Oh you're

1679
01:20:50.279 --> 01:20:53.560
in love with him, Oh you should die, like hope,

1680
01:20:53.640 --> 01:20:56.239
like wishing bad and harm on me. And that's why

1681
01:20:56.239 --> 01:20:58.159
I didn't want to talk for a while. I got

1682
01:20:58.800 --> 01:20:59.359
like nervous.

1683
01:20:59.399 --> 01:21:01.800
I didn't know. I didn't even think about it in person.

1684
01:21:01.840 --> 01:21:03.720
When I went in person that someone was going to

1685
01:21:03.800 --> 01:21:06.880
doxs my information like this, they were all thinking his

1686
01:21:06.960 --> 01:21:09.319
grandma bought his stuff and everything, so then they assumed

1687
01:21:09.359 --> 01:21:11.279
I bought it and it wasn't even me, it's other

1688
01:21:11.359 --> 01:21:14.399
fan people Like there's multiple Fancy has fans. They fan

1689
01:21:14.560 --> 01:21:18.600
people like guys to people write him from England from

1690
01:21:18.640 --> 01:21:23.640
like all over Ireland, Canada, Wow, and they're always constantly

1691
01:21:23.720 --> 01:21:25.600
like people are constantly sending him stuff.

1692
01:21:25.640 --> 01:21:27.119
So then they went to dig in.

1693
01:21:27.520 --> 01:21:30.159
They told up that they got the freedom information of

1694
01:21:30.199 --> 01:21:32.399
who's on his visitor list, which was me because I

1695
01:21:32.399 --> 01:21:35.439
had to be approved by Dodge and felt a little form.

1696
01:21:36.119 --> 01:21:38.920
So they they got all these visits and people were like, oh,

1697
01:21:38.960 --> 01:21:41.880
she's a frequent flyer because I obviously came him in

1698
01:21:41.960 --> 01:21:44.439
Vegas out there, and I was I don't even would

1699
01:21:44.479 --> 01:21:46.439
listen to no one would want to hear my story

1700
01:21:46.439 --> 01:21:49.000
in that moment because everyone had their assumptions and their

1701
01:21:49.039 --> 01:21:52.960
minds made up of what I was already, and the

1702
01:21:53.000 --> 01:21:55.199
stuff I was getting in my Facebook was like you're

1703
01:21:55.199 --> 01:21:57.239
gonna die on a hill, You're gonna mess up your job,

1704
01:21:57.279 --> 01:22:00.560
You're messing up your life, like you're this just kind

1705
01:22:00.600 --> 01:22:03.760
of very rude stuff wishing me harm and they assumed

1706
01:22:03.800 --> 01:22:04.920
that it was me doing it.

1707
01:22:05.000 --> 01:22:08.680
But he's been taking care of about other people, not me, So.

1708
01:22:09.840 --> 01:22:12.199
What is flight friends? I've never heard of that.

1709
01:22:13.079 --> 01:22:15.800
It's like a Reddit flight France. So like there's there's

1710
01:22:15.840 --> 01:22:18.680
like a flight Radar twenty four, this little app you

1711
01:22:18.680 --> 01:22:20.239
could have and you can watch a bunch of flights

1712
01:22:20.239 --> 01:22:22.399
throughout the world and throughout the country. And so when

1713
01:22:22.680 --> 01:22:25.319
in Florida and Brian Laundry is hiding out there, they

1714
01:22:25.359 --> 01:22:27.640
were like circling so you can like we were watching

1715
01:22:27.680 --> 01:22:29.359
to see and like the planes would go out.

1716
01:22:29.439 --> 01:22:32.119
I staw have that flight things. I'm interested in planes.

1717
01:22:31.880 --> 01:22:33.600
And stuff like that anyway, And so you can see

1718
01:22:33.640 --> 01:22:35.880
like all the flights leaving and and some of it's

1719
01:22:35.920 --> 01:22:37.560
kind of creepy because if there are raised a plane crash,

1720
01:22:37.600 --> 01:22:40.119
you could actually see the descent like go down and

1721
01:22:40.159 --> 01:22:43.399
things like that. So it's real time, real tracking. But

1722
01:22:43.520 --> 01:22:47.319
my daughter's phoone to see her family in different parts.

1723
01:22:47.479 --> 01:22:50.279
I've been able to track her flight on there because

1724
01:22:50.319 --> 01:22:52.880
you just need to know the flight numbers of when

1725
01:22:52.880 --> 01:22:54.840
you go bord your plane, if your flight two two

1726
01:22:54.840 --> 01:22:57.039
eight or whatever, you know, you can track and it

1727
01:22:57.079 --> 01:22:59.439
shows the whole world too, So that moderator kind of

1728
01:22:59.479 --> 01:23:01.520
knew me did have some of that stuff removed. But

1729
01:23:01.560 --> 01:23:05.319
that's initially how my name got put out was people

1730
01:23:05.319 --> 01:23:08.239
were thinking, who's sending him stuff? We're going to dig

1731
01:23:08.279 --> 01:23:11.479
into this further, and then oh, here's her visitor log,

1732
01:23:11.479 --> 01:23:14.399
and now it must be her, and now they must

1733
01:23:14.399 --> 01:23:16.239
be dating and she must be in love with him,

1734
01:23:16.239 --> 01:23:18.319
and I must be this fangirl and it's because that's

1735
01:23:18.359 --> 01:23:19.399
completely not true.

1736
01:23:20.439 --> 01:23:24.760
So I am not a fan person like that all.

1737
01:23:24.840 --> 01:23:27.199
It just got caught up in a thing trying to

1738
01:23:27.279 --> 01:23:29.399
do a project that turned into like I didn't know

1739
01:23:29.399 --> 01:23:30.840
how to get out of it type thing.

1740
01:23:31.840 --> 01:23:33.760
Do you still feel like you're kind of caught in

1741
01:23:33.840 --> 01:23:37.800
it or do you feel comfortable with your placement right now?

1742
01:23:37.920 --> 01:23:42.039
I'm glad to be away my energy, away from all

1743
01:23:42.079 --> 01:23:44.279
of that, and like I'm I have no regrets about

1744
01:23:44.359 --> 01:23:46.359
like not talking to him ever again.

1745
01:23:46.840 --> 01:23:49.079
I just get a little nervous because I don't know.

1746
01:23:49.359 --> 01:23:51.960
I'm sure some people might not you know, still like

1747
01:23:52.039 --> 01:23:54.840
me or have assumptions about me, And that's fine. It's

1748
01:23:54.920 --> 01:23:57.159
just I wanted to know the truth to be told

1749
01:23:57.199 --> 01:24:00.439
of like what I knew, because my attention is we're

1750
01:24:00.479 --> 01:24:03.239
never I don't want my name to be linked with

1751
01:24:03.439 --> 01:24:05.640
his in a way that it seems like because I

1752
01:24:05.720 --> 01:24:07.479
actually have in a relationship, so I don't want my

1753
01:24:07.560 --> 01:24:08.520
name being linked.

1754
01:24:08.239 --> 01:24:09.960
With him as if I'm really with him.

1755
01:24:10.439 --> 01:24:12.600
So now there's a book being written, Now what's going

1756
01:24:12.680 --> 01:24:15.199
to happen because there's assumptions about my name out there

1757
01:24:15.199 --> 01:24:16.399
and I don't want to be in a book. And

1758
01:24:16.399 --> 01:24:17.960
that's when I was like, what is going on? You

1759
01:24:17.960 --> 01:24:22.039
didn't tell me there's a book being written and you know,

1760
01:24:22.079 --> 01:24:23.920
and that stuff's out there. My name is out there

1761
01:24:23.960 --> 01:24:28.199
at this point, so it's like I it's like it

1762
01:24:28.279 --> 01:24:31.119
the public assumed stuff, and so I wanted to kind

1763
01:24:31.159 --> 01:24:31.960
of like made sure.

1764
01:24:32.039 --> 01:24:34.760
I did try to write forty eight hours, like a.

1765
01:24:34.760 --> 01:24:38.560
Couple months back, and like let them know who I was,

1766
01:24:38.640 --> 01:24:40.680
because you know, they had did a peace on him,

1767
01:24:40.800 --> 01:24:41.359
and then.

1768
01:24:42.760 --> 01:24:44.199
I haven't.

1769
01:24:44.439 --> 01:24:47.640
I was kind of like, I, I don't know had unfollowed,

1770
01:24:47.640 --> 01:24:49.720
has read it because of the harassment I was getting to.

1771
01:24:49.800 --> 01:24:53.560
Then I went back on there to see what was new,

1772
01:24:53.720 --> 01:24:54.920
like what was people saying.

1773
01:24:54.920 --> 01:24:57.119
I don't think I've been on since like last year,

1774
01:24:57.199 --> 01:25:00.159
And that's when I had saw and I started of

1775
01:25:00.159 --> 01:25:02.800
writing people back because it came to at the point

1776
01:25:02.840 --> 01:25:06.119
where now I feel more confident and comfortable that I

1777
01:25:06.159 --> 01:25:08.760
can defend myself or like say my side of the

1778
01:25:08.800 --> 01:25:11.600
story where before I was really nervous because I kept

1779
01:25:11.600 --> 01:25:13.800
getting thrusts and people would actually write me, and I

1780
01:25:13.840 --> 01:25:17.319
had to turn off all my messaging, all my like

1781
01:25:17.399 --> 01:25:19.520
adding me as a friend, everything, because I would just

1782
01:25:19.560 --> 01:25:22.439
be getting messages and people adding me from all over parts.

1783
01:25:22.880 --> 01:25:25.640
It just messages all the time. It's like some of

1784
01:25:25.680 --> 01:25:28.239
my stuff, you can't even send me a message because

1785
01:25:28.520 --> 01:25:34.159
people were writing me horrible stuff and assuming like things

1786
01:25:34.199 --> 01:25:36.920
about me, and if I try to write back at

1787
01:25:36.920 --> 01:25:38.920
that time, they were just sharing it to read it,

1788
01:25:39.039 --> 01:25:40.920
and so I wasn't going to be able to get

1789
01:25:40.960 --> 01:25:43.560
any thing across.

1790
01:25:44.479 --> 01:25:47.640
Of how it really do you think you received just

1791
01:25:47.760 --> 01:25:50.439
I guess.

1792
01:25:49.439 --> 01:25:58.720
Fifteen to twenty from different people in different platforms Facebook, Instagram, Reddit, Snapchat.

1793
01:25:58.720 --> 01:26:01.479
I had to leave my whole snapchatt because all of

1794
01:26:01.479 --> 01:26:04.079
those are always linked with my real name, so everybody

1795
01:26:04.079 --> 01:26:06.239
would just look me up and find me. And so

1796
01:26:06.319 --> 01:26:08.239
I had to like change some of my names, like

1797
01:26:08.399 --> 01:26:11.119
my name my name name on those apps so that

1798
01:26:11.159 --> 01:26:14.119
people can find me is easy. And it was a

1799
01:26:14.159 --> 01:26:16.720
little scary, and they they would they had my address

1800
01:26:16.760 --> 01:26:18.520
out there, and I thought someone was going to come

1801
01:26:18.560 --> 01:26:20.920
to my house or do something to me, and stuff

1802
01:26:20.920 --> 01:26:23.439
like that, so I moved and stuff and it just

1803
01:26:23.479 --> 01:26:26.159
got like it just spuns a lot of control that

1804
01:26:26.520 --> 01:26:29.199
And I understand because as a true crime brand and

1805
01:26:29.279 --> 01:26:33.600
I watching other cases or watching like a show you do,

1806
01:26:33.640 --> 01:26:35.439
you kind of get immersed into it and you feel

1807
01:26:35.439 --> 01:26:38.399
like okay, and then you're like, oh well, oh, you

1808
01:26:38.439 --> 01:26:41.039
get really mad because you're feeling a certain way, and

1809
01:26:41.079 --> 01:26:43.159
now you're mad at that person because you think they

1810
01:26:43.159 --> 01:26:45.960
think I'm the one helping or I'm this thing, and

1811
01:26:46.000 --> 01:26:48.359
they want him to suffer in there, you know, And.

1812
01:26:48.399 --> 01:26:50.760
Uh, that's what it is. It comes down to.

1813
01:26:50.920 --> 01:26:53.880
People want him to pay his consequences and he is

1814
01:26:53.960 --> 01:26:56.840
in his way, but he not really. I mean, I

1815
01:26:56.880 --> 01:26:59.600
don't think he ever is going to ever very regretful.

1816
01:26:59.680 --> 01:27:03.119
Room full, and he kind of does kind of have

1817
01:27:03.159 --> 01:27:05.199
it made in there because he does have all these

1818
01:27:05.239 --> 01:27:08.479
fan people doing stuff for him. He's in a working prison,

1819
01:27:09.000 --> 01:27:11.560
so he makes his own money anyway, So if it

1820
01:27:11.600 --> 01:27:13.760
means twenty one dollars a month, it's not very much

1821
01:27:13.800 --> 01:27:16.760
like twenty eight cents an hour or something. So I mean,

1822
01:27:16.800 --> 01:27:19.800
if you he's in Dodge and when he first got there,

1823
01:27:19.880 --> 01:27:21.640
there was gangs and stuff there, and he had a

1824
01:27:21.640 --> 01:27:23.159
few couple fights, like he told me he had to

1825
01:27:23.159 --> 01:27:26.600
fight in the freezer, fight in the shower. They call

1826
01:27:26.680 --> 01:27:30.039
him the butcher. They say, either one, you're the butcher.

1827
01:27:30.840 --> 01:27:33.479
You just remember your parents. So he's got it from

1828
01:27:33.520 --> 01:27:36.079
other people who actually are in there for something else

1829
01:27:36.119 --> 01:27:39.439
that are like pissed off that he took out his

1830
01:27:39.479 --> 01:27:42.479
family and they can't see their family, and so he's

1831
01:27:42.520 --> 01:27:44.439
had that happen. And then they did kind of like

1832
01:27:44.479 --> 01:27:46.960
rearrange Dodge a little bit where they moved some of

1833
01:27:46.960 --> 01:27:49.840
the gang people wait to fox Lake and like he's

1834
01:27:50.079 --> 01:27:51.880
kind of you know, like I said, they moved Chris

1835
01:27:51.960 --> 01:27:55.239
Watts to his unit. He's more with the like child

1836
01:27:55.279 --> 01:27:57.800
molesters and people who have killed their own kids and

1837
01:27:57.840 --> 01:28:02.239
their parents or their family or their wife or Chris Watts,

1838
01:28:02.279 --> 01:28:05.680
like Shnanan Bellain. This let's so they don't harm each

1839
01:28:05.720 --> 01:28:08.119
other because they all did the same thing.

1840
01:28:08.279 --> 01:28:10.399
So they see nothing wrong with anything they do.

1841
01:28:11.520 --> 01:28:14.039
And he said he's become friends with Chris Watts.

1842
01:28:15.039 --> 01:28:17.039
Yes, he talks to Chris. Yes, says he works out

1843
01:28:17.079 --> 01:28:18.880
with him and stuff. And then there's the other guy

1844
01:28:18.920 --> 01:28:22.680
that's in there. He was Joyce Meyer's bodyguard. His name's

1845
01:28:22.800 --> 01:28:26.399
Christopher look up his name. He killed his wife and

1846
01:28:26.439 --> 01:28:28.199
he killed his family. This is too and I think

1847
01:28:28.199 --> 01:28:31.640
he wrote Christopher Coleman. So he murdered his wife Sherry,

1848
01:28:31.680 --> 01:28:34.119
and their son's Garrett eleven and Gavin nine in two

1849
01:28:34.159 --> 01:28:36.880
thousand and nine and he was a bodyguard for Joyce

1850
01:28:36.960 --> 01:28:39.840
Meyer and he was convicted of first agreemers. So Chris

1851
01:28:39.840 --> 01:28:43.119
Watts is in Wisconsin because they try to hurt him,

1852
01:28:43.159 --> 01:28:45.880
and so that's kind of like what happens the same

1853
01:28:45.920 --> 01:28:46.800
thing with this guy.

1854
01:28:47.079 --> 01:28:49.039
He's from Illinois, that crime happening.

1855
01:28:49.119 --> 01:28:52.079
So everybody gets moved to this dodge because it's where

1856
01:28:52.079 --> 01:28:55.960
the family murderer people go. So it's like protected in

1857
01:28:56.000 --> 01:28:59.279
that section, so they have that, and then you have

1858
01:28:59.359 --> 01:29:01.680
the child will and stuff like that, and then you

1859
01:29:01.760 --> 01:29:04.399
got like the other end of it of the dodge

1860
01:29:04.439 --> 01:29:06.640
where they keep the way. It's like you know people

1861
01:29:06.680 --> 01:29:08.319
who are in there for like other crimes or like

1862
01:29:08.359 --> 01:29:11.880
it's transitional. So some people go into dodge, but they

1863
01:29:11.960 --> 01:29:14.439
might not see Chris Watson like Chandler in them because

1864
01:29:14.439 --> 01:29:17.560
they're in like a different unit. Sometimes they may because

1865
01:29:17.800 --> 01:29:21.079
Chandler was last I knew, was working as the dental

1866
01:29:21.279 --> 01:29:23.119
little clerk where they go and he gets to walk

1867
01:29:23.119 --> 01:29:26.000
in the hallway and stuff, and Chris Wats is a custodian,

1868
01:29:26.279 --> 01:29:28.840
so sometimes people do will see them, and so some

1869
01:29:28.880 --> 01:29:31.960
people do say stuff to them, like you know, and

1870
01:29:31.960 --> 01:29:34.119
it's transitioned, so someone might be in there for like

1871
01:29:34.159 --> 01:29:36.479
a gang thing or not even for a murder, and

1872
01:29:36.720 --> 01:29:39.720
they're getting put somewhere else. So they move these other

1873
01:29:39.760 --> 01:29:43.199
guys there from Illinois or Colorado and put them to Wisconsin.

1874
01:29:43.239 --> 01:29:45.000
So he's never going to get moved out of Dodge.

1875
01:29:45.000 --> 01:29:47.279
He's tried, and they told him that it will be

1876
01:29:47.319 --> 01:29:49.880
a no because there's no other prison that they keep

1877
01:29:49.960 --> 01:29:52.840
the people because it's like if something happens to them

1878
01:29:52.960 --> 01:29:54.640
or in one of them, the prison is going to

1879
01:29:54.680 --> 01:29:56.960
get in trouble. So while everybody wants something to happen,

1880
01:29:56.960 --> 01:30:01.560
it's it is protected in a way, right. That's what

1881
01:30:01.760 --> 01:30:04.000
inmate mentor is. So he has a mentor, and that's

1882
01:30:04.039 --> 01:30:07.800
that Christopher Coleman. So his mentor is who he goes

1883
01:30:07.840 --> 01:30:09.800
and they meet like once a month and like he'll

1884
01:30:09.840 --> 01:30:11.039
help with the appeal.

1885
01:30:10.800 --> 01:30:12.800
Or if he has questions about like when the prison

1886
01:30:12.840 --> 01:30:13.279
life or what.

1887
01:30:13.319 --> 01:30:15.800
I don't really know everything they talk about and it's

1888
01:30:15.840 --> 01:30:18.399
not recorded but he said he's still like he's supposed

1889
01:30:18.399 --> 01:30:20.760
to see a therapist, like a psychiatrist. He won't talk

1890
01:30:20.800 --> 01:30:22.520
to the psychiatrist even about any of this.

1891
01:30:22.680 --> 01:30:23.079
He won't.

1892
01:30:23.119 --> 01:30:25.880
He refuses to talk to them, he says, because they're

1893
01:30:25.880 --> 01:30:27.199
going to write it down and they're going to use

1894
01:30:27.199 --> 01:30:29.880
it against him for his appeal. So he doesn't even

1895
01:30:29.960 --> 01:30:32.520
talk in his therapy when he has scheduled therapy.

1896
01:30:33.039 --> 01:30:34.640
He's more so just wants to try to get out

1897
01:30:34.640 --> 01:30:36.920
and get a new trial. He's not very like trying

1898
01:30:36.920 --> 01:30:38.239
to even better himself.

1899
01:30:39.479 --> 01:30:44.439
Right, he doesn't see anything wrong with his mind, unfortunately.

1900
01:30:44.159 --> 01:30:46.680
And there's like times when he's say, taken his medicines

1901
01:30:46.680 --> 01:30:48.960
and told me he's like hit it under his tongue

1902
01:30:48.960 --> 01:30:51.119
in a certain way and not taking his medicine at all,

1903
01:30:51.479 --> 01:30:54.079
because he says when he takes the medicines, he's not

1904
01:30:54.359 --> 01:30:56.560
like feels kind of numbed out and makes him sleep.

1905
01:30:57.159 --> 01:31:00.000
So if he's like he has a TV.

1906
01:31:00.039 --> 01:31:02.680
You in a cell, he has a radio, so he

1907
01:31:02.800 --> 01:31:04.600
will watch TV and stuff, so he won't take his

1908
01:31:04.800 --> 01:31:06.960
medicine on nights he watches or whatever he'll watch. I'm

1909
01:31:06.960 --> 01:31:09.319
not sure what he's doing now, but like he watched

1910
01:31:09.359 --> 01:31:11.199
like a sci fi show, or they get a lot

1911
01:31:11.199 --> 01:31:14.279
of old channels like the British channels and stuff like that.

1912
01:31:15.439 --> 01:31:18.239
So he does have he does have you have stuff.

1913
01:31:18.840 --> 01:31:20.479
That's why one of the moms that help well with

1914
01:31:20.560 --> 01:31:22.560
someone to get death throw, but death Row also can

1915
01:31:22.560 --> 01:31:24.800
get TV, so it's kind of like they kind of

1916
01:31:24.840 --> 01:31:25.720
do get stuff.

1917
01:31:25.800 --> 01:31:31.680
But I mean, you know, did he ever mention video gaming?

1918
01:31:31.800 --> 01:31:35.840
And uh, yes, he always video games. He still plays

1919
01:31:35.920 --> 01:31:39.079
video games. He has a tablet. They have tablets. They're

1920
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all given they're given a tablet at Dodge, so they

1921
01:31:41.960 --> 01:31:44.239
have a little tablet. That's how you can message me

1922
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and whoever's I don't know who's helping him. I mean

1923
01:31:46.800 --> 01:31:48.800
he could probably put money on from his paycheck himself.

1924
01:31:48.840 --> 01:31:51.520
So people always say it's restitution. Well, they don't take

1925
01:31:51.560 --> 01:31:53.880
any money out for restitutions. When people are sending him

1926
01:31:53.920 --> 01:31:57.359
these stuff, they're not. They're not taking restitution out. There

1927
01:31:57.399 --> 01:31:59.800
is no he's not paying anything back. So like if

1928
01:31:59.800 --> 01:32:01.600
he he puts whatever, I'm not sure how much, just

1929
01:32:01.720 --> 01:32:03.840
so say you get this tablet and all of them

1930
01:32:03.880 --> 01:32:06.840
get one and they have to put money on it.

1931
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So if he wants to put money on it or

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someone like sends him money and he puts it on

1933
01:32:10.279 --> 01:32:12.800
the tablet. He can listen to music, he can play

1934
01:32:12.920 --> 01:32:15.880
video games, and he can watch movies on there. The

1935
01:32:15.920 --> 01:32:18.600
movies come out a little like like say Jurassic World,

1936
01:32:18.640 --> 01:32:20.760
like they might get that movie like delayed, you know,

1937
01:32:20.840 --> 01:32:23.880
from the outside world, right, but they they he does

1938
01:32:23.960 --> 01:32:26.520
have an opportunity to purchase that stuff, so he will

1939
01:32:26.560 --> 01:32:29.039
play and has told me he has played video games

1940
01:32:29.039 --> 01:32:31.600
on the tablet and that's what he did on that

1941
01:32:31.600 --> 01:32:33.199
That's all he would do when he told me he

1942
01:32:33.199 --> 01:32:35.520
would on the outside, he played video games that he'd

1943
01:32:35.560 --> 01:32:37.720
be isolated in his room and when his parents thought

1944
01:32:37.760 --> 01:32:40.079
he was actually working, and he wasn't working at all,

1945
01:32:40.720 --> 01:32:42.000
just playing that game.

1946
01:32:43.159 --> 01:32:46.000
So but there games are a little bit different to it.

1947
01:32:46.119 --> 01:32:47.840
Or did he feel like he was addicted.

1948
01:32:49.199 --> 01:32:51.039
No, he never said anything about feeling like he was

1949
01:32:51.079 --> 01:32:52.640
addicted to her or anything like that.

1950
01:32:53.319 --> 01:32:55.279
Yeah, that's one one of my.

1951
01:32:55.960 --> 01:32:58.840
Normal part of life. But you know, he just did

1952
01:32:58.880 --> 01:33:01.279
it because he was and to pretend he was working.

1953
01:33:01.800 --> 01:33:03.079
Sometimes he said to me, like.

1954
01:33:03.039 --> 01:33:05.319
In person, like he would like so he wasn't always

1955
01:33:05.319 --> 01:33:08.279
playing that video game like he would play it, but

1956
01:33:08.319 --> 01:33:10.000
then he would like go to sleep too, and then

1957
01:33:10.039 --> 01:33:12.239
that's why he would be isolating because it was during

1958
01:33:12.439 --> 01:33:15.359
like because some of this happened during COVID. COVID kind

1959
01:33:15.359 --> 01:33:17.359
of gave him the cover. So then he's like, oh,

1960
01:33:17.399 --> 01:33:20.279
I have to work from home for American Family Insurance, right,

1961
01:33:20.680 --> 01:33:22.760
So when his dad, he told me his dad was

1962
01:33:22.800 --> 01:33:24.880
also working from home, but him and his daddy said

1963
01:33:24.920 --> 01:33:28.960
didn't talk, so they text message each other, email each other.

1964
01:33:30.039 --> 01:33:31.680
His mom would try to talk to him and come

1965
01:33:31.720 --> 01:33:34.239
in his room. Okay, So his dad and him, even

1966
01:33:34.239 --> 01:33:36.399
if they were in the same house, according to Chandler,

1967
01:33:36.520 --> 01:33:39.039
they would text each other or email each other.

1968
01:33:39.399 --> 01:33:41.479
So he would hide out and he would pretend he

1969
01:33:41.560 --> 01:33:42.039
was working.

1970
01:33:42.079 --> 01:33:43.840
So that's why he told me, Oh, I wasn't eating,

1971
01:33:43.880 --> 01:33:46.520
I was miserable with life because I was so.

1972
01:33:46.760 --> 01:33:47.479
Involved with this.

1973
01:33:47.600 --> 01:33:49.439
Lie couldn't come out of my room because my dad

1974
01:33:49.439 --> 01:33:51.239
thinks I'm working and they'd run into each other. So

1975
01:33:51.279 --> 01:33:55.520
he would try to purposely avoid bart while they'd be

1976
01:33:55.640 --> 01:33:58.279
home during the whole COVID thing, and so that gave

1977
01:33:58.359 --> 01:34:00.680
him a lot of cover because of the work from home.

1978
01:34:01.119 --> 01:34:03.399
I think that's why they didn't question it for so long,

1979
01:34:03.479 --> 01:34:06.359
because they're like when he didn't get his paycheck and stuff.

1980
01:34:07.319 --> 01:34:10.640
And then one thing you just mentioned really briefly, was

1981
01:34:11.359 --> 01:34:14.279
is it maybe his signature on his letters was love

1982
01:34:14.319 --> 01:34:16.680
and rockets or something to do with love and rockets.

1983
01:34:16.720 --> 01:34:17.359
That's what it sell.

1984
01:34:17.520 --> 01:34:20.640
That's what is his old bunkie writes. That's what his

1985
01:34:20.720 --> 01:34:23.560
old bunkie writes to him. I don't know why, because

1986
01:34:23.600 --> 01:34:26.600
I asked him why did why did you have grinder

1987
01:34:26.640 --> 01:34:28.079
on the outside, And that's when he's like, I never

1988
01:34:28.119 --> 01:34:31.239
had grinder. I always talked to, always had girlfriends. That's

1989
01:34:31.319 --> 01:34:34.199
my bunky. Oh, he signs it love and rockets. I

1990
01:34:34.239 --> 01:34:36.199
can send you one of his letters.

1991
01:34:36.680 --> 01:34:38.000
I don't need to. I don't care.

1992
01:34:38.119 --> 01:34:40.920
Like he always has a cover. He tried to always

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01:34:40.960 --> 01:34:41.960
cover up for something.

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01:34:43.000 --> 01:34:44.840
Hmmm. Interesting.

1995
01:34:45.640 --> 01:34:48.319
But he told me that that person was never writing him,

1996
01:34:48.439 --> 01:34:50.319
Like he told me all it ghost to me. They

1997
01:34:50.359 --> 01:34:52.640
don't write me. I'm so alone. I don't have anybody

1998
01:34:52.680 --> 01:34:54.720
that says it's not true. And he probably has a

1999
01:34:54.760 --> 01:34:57.399
lot more people he talks to than I that I

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01:34:58.079 --> 01:35:00.920
we don't even know about. I don't even know ye.

2001
01:35:01.520 --> 01:35:06.720
So is there anything else that you wanted to share

2002
01:35:06.800 --> 01:35:09.279
that I didn't get to ask you about?

2003
01:35:11.399 --> 01:35:12.399
Trying to think.

2004
01:35:14.359 --> 01:35:17.720
No, I I just feel like I just feel like

2005
01:35:17.800 --> 01:35:19.800
I got caught up in this, and I really just

2006
01:35:19.840 --> 01:35:22.520
wanted to put out what the truth was and try

2007
01:35:22.560 --> 01:35:26.640
to because it's tell the truth of what he's he's

2008
01:35:26.720 --> 01:35:30.439
told me, so that Barton Christa's name is not ruined

2009
01:35:30.439 --> 01:35:32.600
because they were not bad parents, and they were they

2010
01:35:32.600 --> 01:35:34.640
were the victims here, as well as Mitch and like

2011
01:35:34.680 --> 01:35:38.079
all his other family and everybody else, the coworkers, all

2012
01:35:38.159 --> 01:35:41.800
his parents' friends and and I just feel really bad

2013
01:35:42.000 --> 01:35:45.159
for all those all those involved in this.

2014
01:35:46.920 --> 01:35:50.319
Yeah, he really seems like even now after the crime

2015
01:35:50.399 --> 01:35:54.560
is so far in the past, he's still wreaking havoc

2016
01:35:54.800 --> 01:35:57.079
with his reckless.

2017
01:35:56.760 --> 01:35:59.560
With his life it lies and like manipulating people.

2018
01:36:00.960 --> 01:36:05.880
Yeah, well, I hope you don't get any more death threats.

2019
01:36:05.960 --> 01:36:07.039
That's pretty on him.

2020
01:36:08.279 --> 01:36:09.840
I haven't gotten it for a while, but it was

2021
01:36:09.880 --> 01:36:12.760
happening back when when I first w I visited in

2022
01:36:12.800 --> 01:36:14.760
person and they pulled up that list. But now my

2023
01:36:14.880 --> 01:36:16.600
name has been out there for a while, so no,

2024
01:36:16.760 --> 01:36:20.359
I know people know about me. So I just hope

2025
01:36:20.359 --> 01:36:22.920
no one gives me anything because I don't want I

2026
01:36:22.920 --> 01:36:26.239
don't want to anything to I don't want I'm like,

2027
01:36:26.960 --> 01:36:29.760
I don't know how to word it, like I am,

2028
01:36:29.840 --> 01:36:32.239
I'm very caring and all that I wouldn't I'm not.

2029
01:36:32.520 --> 01:36:34.600
I'm not don't want to be with him, not with him,

2030
01:36:34.600 --> 01:36:37.800
and I don't want anybody to have assumptions that I

2031
01:36:37.880 --> 01:36:39.720
was or am. So I wanted to make sure that

2032
01:36:39.760 --> 01:36:42.319
I had said my truth of the side.

2033
01:36:42.720 --> 01:36:43.920
Yeah, I appreciate it.

2034
01:36:44.039 --> 01:36:45.760
Because that's why I was gay. The death threats because

2035
01:36:45.760 --> 01:36:47.319
they think that I was the one helping. But it's

2036
01:36:47.359 --> 01:36:51.600
really people from like Ireland, the UK, Canada. It's like

2037
01:36:51.640 --> 01:36:54.279
because it's constant, and it's those people who actually are

2038
01:36:54.840 --> 01:36:58.600
have that hyperstelia and have actually like you know, are

2039
01:36:58.640 --> 01:36:59.800
attracted to criminals.

2040
01:36:59.840 --> 01:37:02.239
That that's who he gets.

2041
01:37:02.199 --> 01:37:04.560
And men included. I know he has men's that help

2042
01:37:04.600 --> 01:37:07.760
and write him to so that's how he's been floating

2043
01:37:07.760 --> 01:37:09.239
by getting buy.

2044
01:37:09.119 --> 01:37:13.720
In there, M crazy. Did you get a good grade

2045
01:37:13.760 --> 01:37:15.760
on the paper the thesis?

2046
01:37:16.319 --> 01:37:20.079
I got it a yes, And I get use that

2047
01:37:20.159 --> 01:37:23.279
too when I go on to my job too, because

2048
01:37:23.319 --> 01:37:24.960
it was like a six week it's like a six

2049
01:37:25.000 --> 01:37:27.119
week part, so it's like different parts to it all too.

2050
01:37:27.199 --> 01:37:31.199
So Yeah, so I finished that degree and I'm onto

2051
01:37:31.439 --> 01:37:35.199
I graduated and I'm finishing up my bachelor's. Like I said,

2052
01:37:35.239 --> 01:37:37.840
so I still so I have a degree with my

2053
01:37:37.880 --> 01:37:41.319
major's criminal justice. Now I'm finishing getting a bachelor's and

2054
01:37:41.359 --> 01:37:45.359
criminal justice with a minor in psychology. However, I'm using

2055
01:37:45.399 --> 01:37:47.199
it to go on and I want to work with

2056
01:37:47.319 --> 01:37:48.760
juveniles and do some kind.

2057
01:37:48.600 --> 01:37:51.479
Of social work and help help help the youth.

2058
01:37:52.199 --> 01:37:54.119
So I'm not going to kind of be like doing

2059
01:37:54.159 --> 01:37:57.000
this after I've been involved with all these plus the

2060
01:37:57.039 --> 01:37:59.720
local cases. I've been doing this for so long, and

2061
01:38:00.119 --> 01:38:03.079
driver i've had experience with Chandler, I don't want to

2062
01:38:03.119 --> 01:38:06.159
mix my energy anymore with that side. I want to

2063
01:38:06.199 --> 01:38:08.760
help the youth so they don't do this to their

2064
01:38:08.800 --> 01:38:13.720
parents or hurt anybody else. So that's what I'm going for.

2065
01:38:14.680 --> 01:38:17.680
Well, thank you so much for taking all the time

2066
01:38:17.720 --> 01:38:20.039
to share your story and everything, and thank.

2067
01:38:19.840 --> 01:38:21.840
You for letting me share my story and like being

2068
01:38:21.880 --> 01:38:23.680
willing to talk to me and not judge me or

2069
01:38:23.680 --> 01:38:26.279
and let me have mice tell to my side of

2070
01:38:26.399 --> 01:38:29.000
what I know what I've been through with it.

2071
01:38:29.079 --> 01:38:34.920
So yeah, it's fascinating. On one part, I was envious

2072
01:38:35.039 --> 01:38:37.239
that you got to talk with Chandler. But now after

2073
01:38:37.319 --> 01:38:42.439
hearing your whole story, I think I'm not as envious anymore.

2074
01:38:42.640 --> 01:38:46.119
Unfortunately, No, I don't think anybody And it's very, very manipulative,

2075
01:38:46.239 --> 01:38:49.600
So it's it's it's easier. It's easy for him to

2076
01:38:49.920 --> 01:38:53.119
manipulate someone who's very naive and doesn't know anything about

2077
01:38:53.159 --> 01:38:55.880
criminal justice at all. That's why when we said that

2078
01:38:55.960 --> 01:38:58.600
girls still writing him again, she is from like Ohio

2079
01:38:58.680 --> 01:39:00.560
or somewhere, and like she's not I'm going to end

2080
01:39:00.600 --> 01:39:04.479
up being his next victim because right, he's probably been

2081
01:39:04.520 --> 01:39:05.359
rainer the whole time.

2082
01:39:05.359 --> 01:39:08.560
But like, yeah, she had found me on Facebook.

2083
01:39:08.640 --> 01:39:10.479
I had seen her profile, So I hope she hears

2084
01:39:10.520 --> 01:39:12.359
this one, and I hope she knows that she's gonna

2085
01:39:12.439 --> 01:39:15.000
that she needs to stay away. He's manipulative and he

2086
01:39:15.039 --> 01:39:18.119
will manipulates people to they get He gets anything he wants,

2087
01:39:18.159 --> 01:39:18.680
and he does it.

2088
01:39:19.039 --> 01:39:20.640
He will not ask you outright for money.

2089
01:39:20.640 --> 01:39:23.399
He does it in a way of a manipulation tactic,

2090
01:39:24.359 --> 01:39:26.800
very covert, narcissistic. You would not think if it comes

2091
01:39:26.840 --> 01:39:29.600
off like he's not secure, but he thinks he's smarter

2092
01:39:29.680 --> 01:39:33.640
than everybody in that presence in the world, So he

2093
01:39:33.680 --> 01:39:34.680
thinks he's very smart.

2094
01:39:34.800 --> 01:39:39.560
Yeah, but yeah, that's all. You're welcome. Thank you for

2095
01:39:39.560 --> 01:39:40.720
having me on. I appreciate you.

2096
01:39:40.840 --> 01:39:46.960
Thanks, Lisa will be in touch. I want to thank

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everyone who has helped us this season. Thank you to

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everyone who provided interviews with us. That includes of course

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Lisa Ge but also Wallace and Andrew Smith. Thank you

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